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My girlfriend and I are in a debate... What is your view on going to see a certified sex therapist for a possible sex addiction or generalized relationship confusion? Good idea or bad idea? Other suggestions for help? Thanks!

He initially said no to therapy, then admitted last month he may need it. No research effort on either part yet, but I will this weekend. And no, he doesn't want to talk about any part of what I want. It's like pulling teeth! :eek: lol

NYC and Mono - You are correct - I am still in a mono marriage! Last fall, I confessed to him that I have a strong need to be more physically active with others in an open marriage. He asked me to never mention it again or face divorce. I felt guilty, so I honestly gave it a re-attempt. I...

Both posts are bringing up valid questions... I would like to formulate my thoughts and respond tomorrow after work. It was a very long, stressful work day and I want to have a clear head when I truly respond :)

I have one "tramp stamp" that I got on my 21st bday, and I plan on adding to it this summer :D

Hi everyone, I can't really explain it, but I'm back. I first joined last fall, then took an abrupt leave of absence this winter. That proved to be unsucessful, so now I'm back. I'm not really sure what I'm doing, or why I'm reaching out again... I just know that there are deep feelings...

Accents Speaking of accents, yes, many Americans (including me) naturally find other accents from other countries / cultures very sexy, and England and Ireland are at the top of my list. I always said I'd move to Ireland just to pick up their accent. The US is so big that too many of us sound...

Your family looks so happy. Thank you for sharing your photos. Merry Christmas!

Thinking of my last post, I think I really need to step away from this computer and join the physical world with like-minded individuals who will accept me for me, and share love with me the way I would like to share back. Interesting.

I'm learning that the men who are deeply interested in me eventually get freaked out that I am in a relationship with another man but interested in taking it to the next level with them. Each of these men, who I've known for many years, have allowed themselves to build strong connections with...

Is every other weekend appropriate? He loves to stay home and I love to spend quality time socializing with friends, doing new things, and meeting new people.

I'm curious... how do you know you can not only make it work, but work good? I am poly in a mono relationship... and I am miserable. Please, share your thoughts :)

Irish roots Why do I use this online name? ...because I can trace my roots back to Ireland, and Erin is my alter-ego. Straight-laced professional by day...

My husband is so mono... I go out without him on the weekends... ;)

Electronica is my middle name On my way home from work, I usually listen to: "Soft Tempest" by Symbion Project "Summer Haze" by Shapeshifter "The Whistlerz (Diplo Remix)" by Claude VonStroke "The Time (Dirty Bit)" by The Black Eyed Peas "What's My Name?" by Rihanna & Drake and always, always...

Is thin the only sexy? Hell no! Is thin the only sexy? Hell no! Personality, confidence, the ability to be sexually open, and the eyes... it's always about the eyes...

These are valid fears many women encounter. Is a married poly woman who is dedicated to her mono husband considered as easy or a slut for having thoughts of dating/sleeping with other men and/or women? Is it wrong to flirt and be flirted with? I have found that most single men don't agree...

I don't mean any disrespect at all when I say this, but it sounds as if you are trying to map out her relationship with him. If she is okay with the other woman around, then that should be left for her to decide. Perhaps he is exploring the idea of unicorn/triad. I suppose if your gf was in a...

SvartSvensk: you're right. The bridge was crossed two months ago, and it wasn't pretty. It's difficult to hear you've been asked to either continue keeping your thoughts to yourself or face being asked to move to your mother's basement. Relationships are a two-way street. If he genuinely worked...

SvartSvensk, You brought up interesting points. What is the next step when you've done all of the above but your SO still refuses to accept? Do you tuck your physical desires under the rug, cheat, or get a divorce?