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@ Ariakas: very interesting response. Thank you for sharing. I can understand why a person can get addicted to sex. People get so lonely that they begin to crave the one thing that is denied them. Then it builds and eventually gets out of hand when left untreated. Perhaps if the loneliness (or...

I have been reading your posts and thinking. Thank you. I think we have grown apart and our best friend status isnt enough to keep me from wanting to stray. I was bi and poly before I met him. I gave all that up to start a family. Well, 10 yrs have gone by and still no kids. Intimacy is a...

I am regretful for starting this thread and getting all of you involved. Thank you for all of your kind words of advice. I dont know what I'll do. It's easier to stay for now and work on myself first. And yes, my wishes to explore polyamory again has everything to do with the conflicts in my...

I give up.

Holy cow - you've read my mind because I am in the same situation. :eek: What are you doing to cope? I'd love to know :)

Hugs Yes, hugs are so fun and good for the soul :D

My nocturnal nature is my worst enemy as I chose a profession which starts at 6 am every week day. YIKES! Off to bed now. NyNy ;)

I have nooooo idea where Farmer City is, unless of course if that's a joke because we have soooo many corn fields! ha ha We experienced our first snowfall of the season tonight... just in time to pull out my little Cmas tree :) How can you still be awake at 5 am - unless of course if you...

On business? Evanston is nice. Chicago is even better :) And yes, I need lots of loving and embracing vibes sent my way, kind of like a big friendly hug :)

Thank you for your kindness! I'm learning and growing before I make any drastic changes. My eyes are wide open, but there's so much at stake if I don't plan wisely. Just like anything, I need to be better prepared if the inevitable happens. I believe I'll know by this spring due to upcoming...

Getting to sneak my convos on this forum makes me feel not so alone in my thoughts. It's 11:15 pm here in Illinois. What time is for you?

Somegeezer, Has this forum helped you find love, advice, or other??? :)

Welcome! I'll admit your poly-friendly, sustainable ag-based community is making me a bit jealous as I am an educator of the sciences. :eek:

Welcome scarlettlily23! I think a lot of us saw that special on TLC not too long ago. That woman from Colorado was just so appealing. I wonder if they are from Manitou Springs because that town is filled with modern-hippie love :) I'd love to move there someday as I have family and friends not...

Hi OneUncagedBird, I saw you posted on one of my threads recently. I didn't realize you were new on here, too. I never thought I'd find this forum or even put a name to my thoughts either. It all makes sense now. I'm learning and growing. I am in a situation where my husband now knows of how I...

Welcome :D

Kelvin, I don't want you to get the wrong impression about my intentions here. After all he and I have said to each other in recent days, I am willing to work it out until all avenues have been exhausted. He agrees of this too. We have not opened the book I bought yet, but he is definitely...

Let's just say this is a Work in Progress...

Do you suggest Colorado because of Manitou Springs? I have family out there and love love love that city!! I'd love to live the modern hippie lifestyle but IL and my profession wont allow for it. How come your wife would like me? Is it something I've said? :) Did you have a good Thanksgiving...

I cant stand Illinois, so I might be moving to Australia... :)