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I hope I am making a mountain out of a molehill here. I really want this situation to work out. I just realized I left something out that is very important. While he identifies as straight, he is bisexual. I'm... very open-minded. In addition to being friends, we've had a casual sexual...

Thumbs! I forgot about them. So useful in many different ways...

My sex drive seems to be a little lower than most men. However, even if I'm not in the mood, I'm still willing to try. Even if a certain part of my body isn't willing to cooperate, my tongue and/or fingers usually do.

Wow, there's a lot here for as short as it is. Also, for the record, I knew what I was possibly getting myself into when I agreed to their request. Hopefully I'm prepared for it. Who I would choose? That depends on the situation if this becomes a problem. Of course, I'd like to work things...

^ I guess it does come off as him being possessive of her, but he's really not. It more has to do with me. He tends to think of me as his sidekick, and he gets irritated when other people don't see me the same way. Which, that sounds worse than it really is as well. It's more of a...

^ Makes sense. I guess I was kind of doing the same. Clarification of points being made is usually a good thing.

I really hate being the new guy starting a thread soliciting advice. However, I plan on sticking around and contributing to many conversations, I promise. Several years ago, I became involved with the girlfriend of a friend of mine, without his knowledge or consent. I was being heavily...

Yeah, I do get that. It's more of a personal preference. I like to avoid the ranking system as much as possible mostly because, even if it does just describe how relationships naturally develop, it's still putting them in order. "Different" just sounds better to me. Although, as much as I...

Even when people do break the "I have to choose one or the other" state of mind, there still seems to be a ranking system a lot of the time. Personally, I prefer to describe relationships as "different" rather than rank them, but it does kind of fall into that pattern despite my best efforts...

With The Ethical Slut, the 2nd edition would probably be best. I think it contains most, if not all, of what was in the first edition; mostly just editions. I don't know for sure though, I've only read the first edition. Although, I keep meaning to order a copy of the second. When I read it...

^ Thanks. Hmm, nothing in the Un-Manifesto says I have to wear pants. I take this to mean I'm free to not wear pants and that it's too late to add that rule now. As for the drink choices, I'll take one of each.

Hello everyone. I'm new because I just joined, as you can probably see from my join date and post count. I look forward to being not so new. This looks like a nice place so far. As for polyamory, I'll go with being somewhat new to it as well; but that's complex. Philosophically, I've pretty...