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I think I am learning to rely on myself more, rather than others. That doesn't mean I don't deserve a fair share of time and intimacy and love, though.

Yes, I believe you are right about him changing because of the special kind of relationship structure. It definitely changes a person's way of thinking. I believe it takes a lot of personal work and growing up. The main thing I have noticed, for me, going from a 24-year monogamous relationship...

I'm getting off the original subject here, but, after reading the website that was suggested above, I thought someone might have some input on what I'm about to say. My relationship began with this couple after I ended a 24-year relationship with my husband. I was 16 when I met him. My new...

Thank you.

I also have a very loving relationship with my gf, but she admits that her jealousy and fears do get in the way of letting herself go with me. I don't think she fully trusts me, even after a year.

I've headed away with my kids on a holiday today for 5 days, which will be a nice break. But this weekend had a big discussion with all 3 of us and made some progress. Bf has admitted to us that he would like to spend the whole night with me at times. Gf still feels very agitated by this...

I've tried a few times to make the break to living on my own, and as much as I know how much this would upset my bf, he has been behind me, as in believing it would be better for me to be independent, as he knows how hard it is for me. But each time I try, funnily enough it is my gf who fights...

I know. Im feeling very low about this right now.

I have no problem sleeping alone. I am an amazing sleeper. But I just need the together time, especially as I can't show affection freely during the day because of the kids, etc.

In reply to BrigidsDaughter, I may be wrong about this, but maybe it doesn't bother you too much because you still have your hubby to sleep with. I sleep alone. I sometimes start off in their bed, and sometimes bf comes down to me for a couple of hours, but the rest of the time I'm alone.

They are both aware of my thoughts and needs. I'm a talker and I've tried really hard in this relationship to be honest and open. We can't have another bed in their room, because it would be too obvious for the kids and other family members who don't know about us. I am seen as a close friend...

I think I am going to have to ask her to make this sacrifice for me, even if we start with one night a week. I guess it will all come down to how committed to our relationship she is. Thank you for your advice.

Sometimes I feel like my gf is going to have to get used to sometimes sleeping alone, or they'll have to learn to live without me. But I don't like to pressure her.

Thank you for your input. My girlfriend doesn't want to sleep without her husband. The only time she and I sleep the whole night together is when he is away. I'm a bit hurt by this, but have accepted it. My boyfriend doesn't mind where he sleeps, but feels guilty to be away from her bed for too...

sleeping arrangements I became part of a triad relationship (FFM) a year ago after my marriage broke up. The couple I'm with have been together for over 15 years and have four boys. I have three kids. The youngest, my son, 11, lives with me every other week. Our relationship has had its trials...

Thanks for your reply. My fb name is janine crowe from nelsin nz, be good if u could add me and we could chat

Also new I've been in a relationship with a couple now for a year, living with them. We are FFM. They were married for 15 years before meeting me, but they had done some swinging. I broke up with my husband of 20 years, and up until then hadnt been with another woman. Our relationship is...

Hi, I would like to be your friend on FB. Here in New Zealand I dont know anyone to chat to who is in a poly relationship. I am the NEW Girl in a relationship with a married couple, weve been living together almost a year, after my marriage breakup. Its been very hard at times due to jealously...