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What purpose does that rule serve?

I don't know if thin is the only sexy .... the question is kind of loaded in my opinion. I don't think anyone would argue that speaking strictly in terms of physical desirability it's true that a 114 lb lady, 36-24-36 will generally get more attention than the 200 lb lady that is siting beside...

it sounds like his new potential live-in interest sees men as little more than bank machines. Perhaps they're perfect for each other.

I'm no expert, I don't even play one on TV, but I did have a couple of thoughts. I don't think you have to fear becoming free from care. It's easy not to burn grey matter about things you don't care about. No question that it's difficult to not get carried away when you (not you specifically...

Is there room for a king-sized bed in your room? Or perhaps a king-sized memory foam topper of 2 or 3 inches could be put on the floor someplace and that would do for a bit. Essentially, what I read here is that your bed is too small for the three of you to comfortably sleep. That would...

Just a bit of an update. Most of the ideas here we considered. In the end, a 3" memory foam seemed to work out best. It rolls up small enough to fit into a Rubbermaid container when not in use. It serves as a terrific play area, and a comfortable place to sleep, as well.

RP said "It amazes me how the affect of one small animal can change a person. I had a rat I loved just as much and several cats, dogs and other small animals that didn't effect my life as much. When my big brown tabby, Trevor goes I will be devistated. Yet not so much if my torteshell cat (now...

I just wanted to say good luck, and thank you. It's interesting what people get from wanting to learn about themselves. Also, because of online communities such as this, there are entirely new ways to share information and support. I've read your blog from start to finish, It's weird because I...

I was going to ask something along the same lines .... Maybe it's the tone of your post ( or a tone I might be reading into it ) In any event I'm happy for you and Bear .... Hope that helps.

I dunno, I'm a relatively new member here but lurked for quite a bit before that. Every second day there seems to be a post looking for that magic bullet about how to speak to your SO about opening up the relationship, or how do I deal with jealousy (mine or theirs) etc. I don't find "do a...

I think for me it is clear some of the things that you feel are triggering your response of feeling threatened. I don't know if I could comment on if you are being too sensitive or not but I was thinking it might be helpful if you could expand on what feeling threatened means. What...

That's funny right there!

Thanks, I enjoyed it.

Im not much of a "techno weenie" ..... But the link you provided didn't load for me. I'd certainly be interested to read it.

Portable bed ideas When I visit my partner at her home, we don't sleep in her bed, they have limited space available, and no formal guest room. We have a terrific sex life and have basically destroyed a futon frame, and gone through about a half a dozen air mattresses in the past couple of...

I've lurked here for a long time and I often find that many shared experiences leave me with more questions than answers. Im sorry for what you're going through, it doesn't sound like much fun and believe me I am hardly an apologist for DH. From what I've been able to gather from your posts...