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My personal opinion on it is that you need to work out how to deal with your emotions concerning the jealousy about the secondary. Like everyone else is saying, is he okay as a person for her to go to. Do you think that he is going to use that information against you. Do you think he's the type...

I think thats a better idea. I do commend S though. Thats much more then I could do. I was quiet content for the longest time not getting along with my MIL cause I thought she was just as irritating as she thought I was destructive to her already bad relationship with her son. XD But now she...

Wow, thats quiet an interesting perspective. I didn't realize all that. X3 If its anything, its single women who hit on him... Or his "I just got divorced and have to deal with my two kids, please come comfort me"-ex... O.o... Even he was like... uhhh.. noooooo.. lol

I like how this thread went from talking about sexual privacy to whole theories on sexual shame versus sexual privacy. I hate it when my husband shouts out to his friend while we are all in the apartment, "I DID THIS WITH MY WIFE." His friends' girlfriend and I look at each other like, "Omg...

Yeah that's pretty much on how I go on about dealing with it so far. X3 I'm not super jealous or anything and it passes quickly. Before hand I just didn't like feeling it, haha. I didn't get it. At this point just knowing why it bothers me is enough help to get me over it quickly. It doesn't...

So I made a little break through just now. My husband and I are in a somewhat open relationship. I say somewhat only because we're not open about it publicly. I feel like I am more "warmed up to" poly then my husband is, and as such we are taking it slow. Honestly I get very excited when I think...

Personal space is definitely needed and like a previous person already mentioned ^ Why don;t you jsut tell them what you posted here? My husband and I enjoy our seperate time apart. its lovely. even as we speak he is playing Call of Duty BO2 with MY sisters in the living room, as I sit here...

Being on the young end at this forum, and very new, I apologize ahead of time for any naivety. (And I think I just point that out because Galagirl has provided such a great breakdown, as it is.) Honestly, it does not sound like you want to be with your husband anymore. Or at least you are just...

Yeah totally. And it's not like my friends totally agree with our choices. They heard me out and let me explain it, but one of my friends is like "You know I couldn't focus on more then one relationship. I feel like I'd have no time to myself." But she doesn't badger me about it, she doesn't try...

Yeah thats a deal breaker for me. It makes me really uncomfortable. D: I've been a bit spot on about first impressions with people. Seems like the only time I was wrong was when I thought they were nice wonderful people, and turned out to be buttholes. XD

I think it's important that she reads more up on polyamory more too. Some of what the people here are saying it's true. She has very bad way of wording herself with the whole deal breaker thing. Emotions are not a faucet, (and the usual familiar phrase can be applied to all emotions I think) you...

Female Bi-sexual Married to polycurious straight male.

So while my husband and I are taking our polyamory slow, well we are for him lol, I can't help but think thinks might be easier if we were just open about it. Not necessarily faster, that doesn't bother me, but it'd be nice if we could both just be like WHAT UP!!! WE ROLL LIKE THIS! Our closest...

Just from my personal beliefs I have to say what you're wife is doing is a bit unfair. While marriage is complicated and the bond is very important, to say you're holding her back as a person is not quite nice to say. The only person holding her back is herself. She could leave you if she truly...

Thanks so much for the suggestion. ^_^ And your words are easy to ears..(eyes? haha) It's nice to know that someone believes we are off to a good start.

Update So shortly after all this coming out onto the forums, my husband asked me if I wanted to date other men. I got nervous cause I love him so much, but I didn't want to lie. I told him that I do want to date other men as well as women, but only if he feels comfortable with it. He admitted...

My husband actually feels a constant guilt, and he hasn't even truly truly pursued someone yet. It's adorable in it's own sense I'll admit, he's very worried about me getting upset. When I'm the total opposite. I'm very very excited for him to explore. I think it's quite normal. I believe its...

Is this too much for an intro? haha :) Hello all! I am a 23 year old bi female. Currently married to wonderful husband of 3 years. We've discussed polyamory since the beginning, even before dating. Only now has it gotten serious. Right now he is seeking out a new relationship, and I am...

I really wasn't sure for what the title should be. ^^ Just to make things a little easier, I'd like to first say that I'm in a very happy (semi) mono relationship with my husband. I introduced the idea of polyamory to my husband before we even began dating. He was actually in a relationship at...