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Fear of being alone... I used to have the same fear. I felt incomplete without another person in my life. If I enjoyed a beautiful sunset or a gorgeous fall day, it was less enjoyable if I wasn't able to share it with someone I loved. My life revolved around finding a soul mate to share every...

Well, there are only 2 other options (S or T) so everyone has to be one of those combinations. Here are the choices: E or I = Extroverted or Introverted S or N = Sensing (preferring tangibles) or Intuitive (preferring ideas & concepts) T or F = Thinking (relying primarily on logic &...

Yes, he is. :) Right again... Oops! LOL... I mean, who's Mark?? ;) LOL I'm an ENFP (Champion), my husband is an ISFP (Crafter).

So am I to take this to mean that multiple "husbands" is out of the question? :P

Thank you for the awesome parenting advice! It carries over for adults too, but honestly I think that's a great way to train kids (and husbands?) to think for themselves and think about "needs" in general. I'm going to make it a point to try it.

Wow! Kat, it may be "tough love," but I tend to agree with Mono on this one. My hubby has the "all I do is cause problems" attitude when things aren't going smoothly between us. It reminds me of my 6-yr old sitting on his bicycle saying, "I can't do it!" and refusing to keep practicing...

You're quite welcome, MG. Thank you for putting yourself out there and acknowledging that it had validity for you. That's the funny thing about stumbling upon a tidbit of "truth" in life. It seems to ring true for just about everyone. As if it's a law of nature, like gravity or something. Often...

Ooh! Ooh! Me first! Me first! (Oops, did I say that out loud?)

But it's so damn entertaining! There are so many pretty colors, most of them shades of lavender. However, I must say it needs a good cleaning. It's VERY dirty in here! :rolleyes: LMFAO!

Damn shame, too. *giggle* (Sorry, I read this 5 minutes ago and I'm still giggling!) Thanks for the laugh, LR! :p

Mono, if they don't make it I'll personally fly RP up here for an "attitude adjustment" session of epic proportion! Lol But only if I get to watch! Maca: I'm glad you caught your negative thought pattern and stopped to consider whether or not it's valid. As with *any* relationship, it's easy...

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Forgiveness & Harmony Wow! MG, I'm totally impressed that you *nailed* the situation perfectly, at least that aspect of it. What you wrote above is practically a direct quote from LR, which is amazing, considering you're stated lack of experience in such a living arrangement. I was stunned...

GG, I'm glad you understand I'm trying to help, and I do understand where you're coming from. I'm not missing that dynamic between the two of you. But there *is* something it seems like you might be missing even though you keep saying it yourself: What happens when who you are to her is...

Ok, here's my two cents... I became open to the idea of poly because I have a multi-faceted personality to an extent that makes it unlikely (if even possible) for one person to fulfill all of those facets. To elaborate, I enjoy moose hunting, camping and fishing, yet I feel just as comfortable...

Just a point of clarification... is he planning on starting another relationship NOW because he's afraid he won't be satisfied with the amount of time you have for him? Or is he planning to wait and see if you are enough for him and THEN start another relationship? Your posts make it sound like...

Still confused... It's not about figuring out how to make that "thing" important to you so you'll remember. It's about it being important TO YOU to take care of the "things" that are important to the PERSON who is important TO YOU. Again, you're focusing on not "knowing" or "thinking" about...

Priorities... I think that's part of the reason your friends assume LR is "making" you do (or not do) certain things. I hear you saying "until I know she's ok with me being away..." and "I need to hold her feelings and needs over that of the others..." When you talk about NOT seeing your...

Clarification please....? The last quote is the one that baffles me the most... how can you ask that question if you say you don't see a difference between the two?? Maybe I'm misinterpreting what you're saying GG, but you seem to be referring to you and LR being "best friends" as something...

Befuddled... Ok... so LR is MY best friend in the way that "G" is your best friend. No romance involved. You don't live with him, I don't live with LR. We've never been romantically involved even tho we're both bi, our relationship isn't on that level. But what if we decided to take it...