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  1. Tohru

    Are You "Out"?

    I think BG was doing the original poster a favor, by giving them even more information on the topic they were asking about. I don't think he posted the link to dissuade the original poster from the community of this particular thread. I do agree with this though: Anyways though, that is...
  2. Tohru

    New girl here!

    Very cool! I plan on reading it soon. I have a queue of books to read. Isn't that always the case? ;)
  3. Tohru

    I don't know where to begin

    My husband is the same way. He's very introverted and knows that I am a lot more outgoing and that people are quite responsive to me, and I think that feels like a threat to him sometimes. He feels it will be easier for me to find people, while he struggles to even talk to other people. I also...
  4. Tohru

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    I'm really big into anime. One of my favorites is called Fruits Basket. The main character is a girl named Honda Tohru. She's just a very kind hearted, hard working character who lives in a house with two of her high school friends and their cousin. It has a lot of sad, emotional parts in it...
  5. Tohru

    How to make a poly/swinger relationship work?

    Thank you everyone for your replies, they were really helpful. I will mention that I did go to a swinger's club with my husband once. It was a little overwhelming, but I didn't have a bad time. I'm glad I gave it a chance, and I am considering going back. I told my husband that he really needs...
  6. Tohru

    New girl here!

    I think she mentioned having read Opening Up with him. Speaking of which, I'm sure people would recommend that book, but I've already read Ethical Slut. If anyone has read both books, how do they compare? Do they cover similar topics, or do either books cover different subjects regarding...
  7. Tohru

    New-ish to polyamory, looking for friends

    Thank you for the welcome and heads up :) I appreciate it!
  8. Tohru

    How to make a poly/swinger relationship work?

    My current situation with my husband is a tricky one. We got married 3 years ago under the pretenses that it would be a monogamous marriage. Obviously, I found out during the marriage that I could not be exclusively monogamous (I mean, I could be monogamous if it just happened that way, but the...
  9. Tohru

    Friend-Zoned

    Hmmm, do you think you could go further into the "relationship angst" that you speak of? I think I know what you're saying, but just curious if there are specific details to that. I also agree with SchrodingersCat (love the username, btw) that it's probably a bad idea to hold on to the idea...
  10. Tohru

    New-ish to polyamory, looking for friends

    I've gone to a few polyamory meetups nearby where I live. I definitely enjoy the company and local community, but would also like to reach out to people virtually - to the people that don't live particularly close! :)
  11. Tohru

    New girl here!

    Actually the first person I had a crush on other than my husband was already in a relationship too...thankfully with someone who was polyamorous, and she was the one who told me about the lifestyle and encouraged me to read more about it. Once I started educating myself about it, I realized I...
  12. Tohru

    New-ish to polyamory, looking for friends

    I have only just recently learned about polyamory, thanks to a friend, and also thanks to reading Ethical Slut. I suspect that I have been polyamorous for a long time, but never knew about the lifestyle until recently. When I was younger, I resorted to cheating a lot, but mostly because I felt...
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