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fuchka yeah, I actually feel more interested in being in fb now that I'm thinking about it in those kind of terms. :) RainyGrlJenny, thanks! -- So, all good all around. Might start from a few days ago. I had a date. :cool: Btw, it was so strange to have a date, since I've never really...

Have loads of fun! ;) And I also want to add that I appreciated the (totally-not-)TMI portion of your post earlier. I so often want to comment my side on stuff Mya writes about, but I'm just too busy to do it. Anyway, I've been feeling so good about poly lately, so very comfortable in my...

Haha! :D With such standards, how on earth will you ever find yourself a man....

I've quit work for a while, and I'm finally starting to feel like a person again. Thanks to everybody who's commented here, I'm not going to reply to all, but I really enjoy getting comments. :) Now what to write? All kinds of awesomeness is going on. :p It's lucky I share this journal with...

I have nothing to say but... awesome. :cool: Makes some very enjoyable reading, too.

Such problems you have... :cool: Although, you should definitely make a graph. Even I have trouble following despite the fact that I have a grasp of the people you're talking about. ;) It's so easy to hang out with poly people, it makes the whole concept of "stealing somebody's date" kind of...

Awesome! ;)

Hell yeah, vacation. God. You're the coolest! :) (And one of these weeks/months my insane schedule will let me leave something proper for this forum. I really want to but currently just not enough energy.)

I find that amusing, must be funny to find out. And you do seem SO scary here, too. :D

Sorry to hear about your break up, but sounds like you're doing what you need to. Hug!

I'm so sorry to hear this... Take care, all of you. <3

*hugs*

This is wonderful, I think it might be the definition of karma. <3

Me and Mya have these kind of meta-conversations every so often. We also do a lot of disclaimers when we talk that go along the lines of "this is how I feel but I don't think this rationally" or "this is how I feel but I don't wish you to do anything about it". I find it crucial for facilitating...

Hahah, maybe... :o Not that I would want another relationship... Never say never, but I do feel that two is plenty and I am stretched in terms of time&energy as it is. But, umm, wouldn't mind maybe just a little flirting/talking/etc. ;)

Mya teased me about my commenting your teacher crush. It might be that I'm living vicariously through you, ever so slightly, since I am not close with my own hot lecturer so that I could go for a coffee with her... :p :D

Well... I'm one of those who doesn't want to guard against getting hurt, especially if that means missing out on something cool or great or fun. So, I would definitely go for a coffee and keep on crushing on her some more, even if I wasn't sure what can happen in the future. Tee-hee. :o :p

I'm really glad it was helpful! :) I've been talking with Mya quite a lot about the introvert/extrovert difference, and I notice she has difficulties with relating to how I feel about time (whereas it is easier for me to understand extroversion since it is so culturally dominant). It is limited...

Yeah, I saw your gender-related post earlier, it was interesting. :) I think your aim of limiting the time you spend obsessing about your relationship with Gia might be quite helpful. I'm so happy to read your texts, you sound a lot calmer. I totally get this, it is very similar to how I...

^Yes, thank you for the clarification. :) I think for me, I have felt along these lines about boundaries for some time. However, I am reflecting on it also because Mya is starting to date. It is a somewhat new situation for me that my partner is open to finding other partners and actively...