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    Greetings everybody; I am completely new to this

    I would think everyone here has some experience with jealously. And...yes - sometimes it hurts. Which is not to say you should not do something for the worry of what may hurt. It is also ok to do something for the thought it may bring some happiness..
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    Cuddling With Friends - & Non-sexual Intimacy

    They are indeed wonderful people, as are the friends I know in the online version of life :)
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    Cuddling With Friends - & Non-sexual Intimacy

    Non sexual loving energy is very important to me I must say. Within my very close circle of good friends - we hug and cuddle without restraint. There are couples in the group...and that pretty much means nothing when we are together.. I'm just as likely to fall asleep cuddled up to my darling...
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    The Rare Life

    I send you warmth and respect, and I'll also place some peace into the package.. And I'll send you a smile, as I find you can never have too many.. :)
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    Universal Love and The Green Eyed Monster

    Welcome Mightbeahippie, I'm half hippie myself :) I can't offer too much advice, but you sound like you're doing really well. And I think all the negatives emotions you have raised are part and parcel of a journey. You don't just arrive at point B, there's generally quite a few stops between...
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    What words do you use - lover, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, something else?

    I say "this is my love" when making introductions.
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    Managing the Magic and the Mundane

    Such beauty... I can not even make words in the face of it.
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    What did I do today that made me smile ? I read this; :)
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    Do we have the right?

    But there wasn't any asking...the check was done behind his back. Or have I misunderstood ? Were you honest with him about your intention to do a background check ? Or did you keep that from him ? I'm going to bow out of this discussion - because I think there's a strong cultural thing...
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    Do we have the right?

    It would never occur to me to do a background check. This might be a cultural difference...but...the idea of doing a background check on a potential partner just sounds like the weirdest thing ever. I have no capacity to understand under what circumstances I would ever feel that to be ok...
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    Silence, Music, Mystery and Love. A user's guide to becoming awesome.

    The force is strong in you young Padawan ! :)
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    I told my love I wouldn't be able to pick him up at the airport when he arrives, as I would be so dizzy with love, lust and excitement...that I wouldn't be able to drive. We thought we'd have to give the cab driver a good tip :)
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    Fun quiz

    First thing you wash in the shower? - Shoulders What color is your favorite hoodie? - Gray. I only have one Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? - No, I've decided that would be a mistake.. How are you feeling RIGHT now? - Not great truth be told Tell me about the last dream you...
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    Redpepper's journey

    Yes, I know. When my son turned 10 last year, I felt incredibly lucky to have had 10 years to share with such an amazing person. That's the way I think of his birthdays now.
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    Redpepper's journey

    8 years together! That's something to celebrate :)
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    new member

    Welcome ! I don't get on forums much of late - But when I do I'm encouraged to see younger people actively seeking meaning and exploration. Good luck to you ! It's a friendly crowd you will find here :)
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    Hey Charlie, I loved visiting your country. I learnt many things, chatted with lovely people...

    Hey Charlie, I loved visiting your country. I learnt many things, chatted with lovely people, did some serious adventuring....some wonderful walks. Thank you so much for helping me with preparation. Very valuable. I have developed a soft spot for the old US of A...to be sure !
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    trying to adapt and accept

    Do people know of your bisexuality and your partner's ?
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    Silence, Music, Mystery and Love. A user's guide to becoming awesome.

    Congratulations to you all ! I'll stop in solidarity :)
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