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  1. phoenix762

    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    I thought so, too...about the peaches and snickers...the whole time I was reading the post, this was going through my head: http://vodpod.com/watch/1342428-peaches
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    Religious survey

    I suppose I would define myself as atheist....but still open to any belief in a omnipresent being? I have yet to find any evidence, but I still search...
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    To all unicorn hunters

    I was just reading posts...well, 'cause I am bored...but, I've tried to get back into exercising, and I really need to lose (a lot) of weight. Sofar I've lost about...hum-40 pounds? Don't know if this will help anyone, but here's what I do.... I started out by walking, then when that got...
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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    I would agree...but that's just me. I can't even fathom having sex just for the sake of having sex. I can take care of that myself. My sex drive is practically non-existent, so perhaps that's why?
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    What is this?

    Sounds like a wonderful relationship to me, enjoy it ;0D pshaw on the naysayers....
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    Marriage, Love, and Extended Vacations

    Mind, i am not poly, but I was in the service, was stationed@ Fort Campbell, KY, when I met my (ex) husband. At the time, he was separated from his wife, and living on post, and my understanding (after speaking with his ex) was that she wanted nothing more to do with him, so...well, in hindsight...
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    Poly and Facebook

    I can't comment on the poly thing. I'm curious, but I am not poly, not ANYTHING, in fact, but single. But I have 2 accounts, one for virtual friends, and one for RL friends. The virtual friends one is phoenix seven-sixty-two. The other has my real name. I had, well... not a problem, as such...
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    My wife's new wedding dress pics

    I can see why....it really is a beautiful dress. I've been married twice, both @ the justice of the peace (just the legal ceremony and a witness;0) but....well, if I saw a dress like that when I was getting married...I would want to wear something like that....and I'm NOT partial to dressing up...
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    My wife's new wedding dress pics

    That's very pretty, I love it!! ;0D
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    Mono females & poly lovers

    I really hope I'm not pulling this off topic... I usually lurk because I am not poly, but am curious about it, so usually, I really don't have anything to add. That being said, you were wondering if a woman who was only exposed to a mono lifestyle (this would be me) -if presented with an option...
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    How do you know?

    Now, that...is very interesting...something-as a person who has always been mono-would never have thought of. Yes, I can see both sides of this issue....interesting...
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    Myers Briggs and polyamory.

    You know, I wonder. I have had to take a NUMBER of those pre-employment "behavior tests" when I've submitted a resume. I wonder if this is a version of the Myers Briggs? Anyone know? Anyone know what I mean? It's always the same damn test, too. Pfft.
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    Myers Briggs and polyamory.

    yeah, I got that, too. Some of it, yeah, it sounds like me, some...well, DK;0)
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    A point to sex without orgasm?

    I really don't have much to add, all the above posters have some excellent advice...I just want to say that I'm reading something much more than your inability to have a vaginal orgasm (and BTW, I cannot, I can SOMETIMES with stimulation beforehand, sometimes nothing helps). It seems like you...
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    My new partner isn't comfortable with physical affection

    Don't know if this will help, but I'm like that myself. I do not like people touching me. I must give off a VERY strong vibe, too, because I see people on occasion who are touchy-feely by nature literally recoil mid- touch when they attempt to touch me. Mind, I say nothing to discourage it-my...
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    Quad Family

    Monkey: They're the step-parents of my heart! Just wanted to say that I thought that comment was so sweet. You must have very special children. How adorable;0D -oh, and the 16 yo having trouble with your relationship? I'd venture to say that's mostly a teen thing...you know, trying to assert...
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    How....

    I just wanted to give my thoughts on this, you can do with it what you want, and toss the rest.. This is coming from a separated, middle aged woman who has been in mono relationships all her life...so...you are getting the conventional view, I suppose? I'm thinking this...the women that are...
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    When does attraction start?

    Hum. I really have to get to know a guy emotionally, mentally, b/f I would fall for him. Generally, looks don't mean too much to me at all...not really. Well...perhaps just a little bit..:D The exception was my son's father (my ex). I was physically attracted to him. Yeah. Perhaps that's why I...
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    Facebook Friends

    Know what I did? I made 2 accounts...one for people I know in RL, and one for people I know in the virtual world. I should have done it a lot sooner, but, oh, well.
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    Am I Depressed?

    First....let me get this out....I am so sorry you are having such a hard time. I was almost in tears reading your post. Yeah, I can understand your pain....esp. when you have to bury it and pretend that everything is OK for so long.... And as to your upbringing....wow, yeah. Hearing a daily...
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