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-that's no problem. I did enjoy your blog. I wish you all the best with it. I'm pretty sure I have it bookmarked...

Really? Mind, I can count on one hand the sexual partners I've been with (yeah, I'm as vanilla as they come) but...seems they want to try anal sex at least once. Guess perhaps I wound up with men that were more secure in their sexuality? or more into "experimenting"? DK. Oh, well.

Hum, ok. As I mentioned when I joined, I am not in ANY relationship, let alone poly. I am just intrigued by polyamory, and I joined to make myself visible, didn't want to lurk unseen....seemed kind of rude. That being said, I am straight, and have only had relationships with men. One man at a...

This really wouldn't apply to me, as I'm not in ANY relationship, let alone a poly one. However, if I were, I'd just let the people know who I loved and trusted. That's all, pretty much. I don't think people in my professional circle need to know. (I work in health care.)

Thanks for the request...I just saw it now...sorry;0)

That's interesting. I didn't know that. I wish I could say that I am separated. I can't....can't really say I'm divorced, either, 'cause I am not. Frustrating. I like to be truthful, and "it's complicated" is really deceiving. It's not complicated. I'm separated from my husband....who I am...

I used to have people on FB that I met on BB or other online sites, etc. I stopped that...after a rather odd experience with a person I met online that I didn't know in RL....(wasn't bad, really, just...well..odd). Almost ALL of the people I have are friends I know in RL, with the exception of...

Your bf got you a TENS unit? Wow. Don't you have to be a medical person to get something like that? I bet that comes in handy for many reasons. *slips quietly out of thread and continues lurking*

Oh, ok. Thanks!

Curious. What's a 'unicorn'? As to the male on male, I was wondering. Seems you'd see more female on female, yeah? Mind, I don't know, it's just what I read/hear.

-just wanted to say that I really don't have any advice for you at all, never been in that situation. I'm pretty much a lurker, and pop up now and again, I suppose. I am glad things are working out, that's great. I do have a question, btw. What do you mean by an emotional affair?

looked at some OKC profiles....Thanks for sharing;0) That was pretty cool, and you are all so creative! :D:D

I do, same id as above, FWIW. I really don't go to it a whole lot. I probably need to. I think I answered a gazillion questions for them, though. What's up with that?

I wouldn't know where to begin even-if I had to make a list, just wanted to say that shirt sounds like it was pretty cool;0)

That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. She was wrong on SO many levels....

Don't know. I suppose, if generally they had the same interests, if I was attracted to them in every other way. Mind, I'm not poly at all, I'm just interested with the concept, that's why I've joined. I'd actually find it a bit intriguing, I suppose...but then I'm odd that way...

i'm with you...my brain hurts. however, it's utterly facinating, i am rather enjoying this thread:D

My brain hurts....just...way too much going on here... But-from what I can gather, I was feeling the same way the others are, this is an awfully one-sided relationship, far as my eye can see, polyamorus or not. Wow. I do hope things work out for the best. I'd say ditch the first girl and go...

happy b'day;)

I know my wife, and am trying to be as generous about her as I can, but I've been upfront with her before, to no effect. Now recently she has suspected that I'm searching for another woman, and it has woken her right up. She is doing the best she can to be more affectionate but reaches a...