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I agree, you can't sacrifice your happiness for others, communication is the key, You've got to talk about it. It's funny how life changes sometimes isn't it. But keep this in mind, most guys wonder what life could be like with another woman, what would it have been like, would I have been...

Update Still drifting, wanting "M", slowly becoming attached to Heathers new girlfriend "E", shes very nice & sweet to us, but I still don't know... I've come to the conclusion that when I attach to people, I really do attach for life. Flirted with several girls while were looking for our...

It IS easier said than done... especially when I still want it...

We are the strange... We are The Strange Children of Change.. the Wild, Beautiful Freaks that half frighten, half excite. . It falls on us to lead the way across these waves of radical change, calling back the way forward. We come from all the cultures across the world and all ages. From many...

more true words have never been spoken

Ouch So many elements of your story sound like what we went through not long ago... We had hoped our "M" was just not mature enough or not ready, but the fact is, if she can't live this life now, she will never be able to. Some people have a need for that "normal" life & we can not rob someone...

In the middle of the journey of our lives, I came to a dark forest, where the clear path had been lost... --Dante

You sound much happier, I'm glad you found what you were looking for :)

Update So we did slowly begin to search again, expecting it to be a forever long search. But we did get several replies from OKcupid (2 seem serious) & we looked at a couple of girls at work, even went on a date with one. One of the girls is pushing for a decision already & is somewhat hurt we...

It happens sometimes, it happened to us, but the rewards are worth it BY FAR.

Speaking of time, Ive noticed Heather & I have an AMPLE amount of time since our triangle ended that were not sure what to do with. We have started searching on OKcupid & actually got a couple of replies, but most want to move much faster than we are ready for yet. I guess were looking for ppl...

Be careful, feelings can & Do change.

True... True...

I watch a lot of Asian cinema & Unrequited love is a common theme there, I always loved those stories SO MUCH, until I felt it myself... "If only..." the 2 saddest words in any language...

Its cool, its all over now & now everyone can heal, we will still remain best of friends :)

I agree, & I know Im fucked up & not thinking right now, & I dont mind the honest feedback at all. So I am leaving her alone, still being friends, I just keep what I think to myself now because I know im not thinking rationally. & Im not really offended at all, more surprised than anything...

more true words have never been spoken, do it for you, not for anyone else.

a mans word I a big believer of "A mans word is his bond" I made promises to both girls that I will keep for the rest of their lives, even though our unicorn is gone. I gave them both my word on several issues & that was enough. But I can understand wanting more, just be ready for society to...

We had a very similar problem, I worked with our last girlfriend & my wife did not get to see her enough & felt left out a lot. being the man I think its up to the man to make sure each girl knows how he feels & make sure to spend most of your time with both of them... Maintaining 1...

a note heather sent her a letter today I had to share...