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I don't consider it swinging necessarily, as there is a relationship there and she isn't looking for more, at least for the moment. Definitely a secondary kind of thing, as he's married to a frigid woman and is very guarded as far as emotional attachments go....

OMG -- WTF??? What an ass! That's like saying it's a good thing someone has three kids so they will still have some if one dies!!! UGH!

IF they are seeing you exclusively (while knowing about each other) and are CHOOSING to not seek other relationships, then you are not being greedy or selfish... If they WANT to pursue other relationships but are not because you have forbidden it, either expressly or by actions/reactions, then...

May I suggest another possible source of locating like-minded individuals? I have a "play" profile on FB (by the same name as here...). It allows me to do just that; play without fear of jeopardizing my job or offending friends and family. But through that, I have found several groups and...

This is a great bit, and I love your terminology. My only problem with what you have said is the bit about ending any relationship that your husband felt threatened by. I can't make that promise to my wife, personally. My girlfriends are very special people, and to me, it would be like trying...

LOL! Well hello then, brother! :p I am amazed at how significant such a simple revelation can be - that the idea that has been pounded into most of us for as long as we've been alive -- that a person can only romantically love a single person at a time -- is a bold-faced lie. Some people MAY...

Awesome! This thread is very timely, though lacking a bit in information. But it really hits home with us. My wife and I are Evangelical Christians, very involved in our church. We've been married for 18 years. I have struggled with what I now recognize as my polyamorous nature, while trying...

I totally get your turn-on. My wife has a mutual guy friend we used to work with whom she talks and texts with regularly. I have always told her I totally trusted her , and I could sense it was fulfilling an emotional need for her. When we talked about opening up our marriage, we talked about...

Sounds familiar! I totally get your story, hon. It's funny, too; when you finally get the epiphany that it really IS possible to really love more than one person at a time. We are so conditioned to believe that lie. It's like one of those visual puzzles where you stare for a while before you...

Good points... here's another. Jeremiah 3:15 calls Israel's King David "a man after God's own heart". David, who was married to several wives and had a vast number of concubines. A man who seduced and married Bathsheba - and was condemned for lying and having her husband killed so he could...

It's a new world! I am a MWM who has been in a monogamous marriage for 18 years; it has been a struggle. I have never felt completely fulfilled and always enjoyed interacting with women online and occasionally otherwise. I have always loved my wife, and struggled with reconciling that with my...