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I had to do that recently. Well, my friend did it for me, but I ultimately had to. It sucks to do, too. :/

To the question in your headline- it sounds as though you are poly, although the insecurity is possible. However, I disagree that what you had with Sebastien was imposed upon him. He said you could have sex with women. You discussed it. He gave the green light. He could have said no. He had...

I've seen stories from a lot of people who tried to be monogamous only to realize it didnt' work for them, I hadn't really seen anyone who was poly and happily monogamous- I guess they wouldn't seek out forums or I'm looking in the wrong places. :) Thanks for the clarification, and thank you...

My partner is my best and only friend, as well. That makes more sense about your problem. I can't give you an answer. If I found people, and the magic combination that'd let it work with me and my partner, I think I'd love it. I don't need that many people, and having a select few very...

I think you posted that in the wrong thread, Celeste. :)

I wasn't sure, because the general vibe I got from poly is not just that- but also that you crave being with more than one person/having the option, so a monogamous relationship wouldn't work. I posted my previous situation (with the person I would've liked to also be my partner, which has...

I've always liked claddaghs, as well. Hope you find something that works, and congratulations! :) I personally don't like rings. I recently pulled mine and my partner's off our fingers because they were hurting me when we held hands and I was sick of that. And apparently fingers change size-...

Do you have more than one friend? If so, why? Isn't one friend enough? Actually, if you have any friends: why isn't your partner enough for you? Why do you need friends when you've got your partner? I don't put distinctions between relationships. I don't see how a friendship is so different...

I'm sorry your ex is being like that- it sounds like he might be using the girls as pawns to make your life miserable rather htan out of a genuine concern for their well-being if he so rarely sees them. Though I can't say for certain, I don't know him. I don't know hte laws about this, only...

I'm not sure if I'm mono or poly or neither, I'm in the grey area I guess. I'm content being monogamous, but when I fall in love with someone else- I'd like to be polyamorous and express my love for that person as well. This happened recently- which got me looking into poly more. This is a...