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I'm not trying at all. Acting like a Troll, maybe, but I'm just defending myself, I really didn't want to have to go the "troll" route. And I get the impression that it's important to you guys that I answer your replies, so that's why I'm all over every response and posting so much. Because I...

Yeah I'm not a stingy person at all. Very fair and interested in the well being of others. Though I will have my rules and that will be there at the outset, what they want can be negotiated as well. The reason I have my rules are to protect the entire sanctum. Exceptions (poking holes in some...

Hey, gotta hit the hay. It's gettin' late. But I like your response here a lot. Every part of it. I want to let you know my thoughts, but I'll do tha tin the morning. Thanks and have a good night. (you're gettin' through to me)

Not a joke. You(a person here or anywhere really) are not welcome to be insulting to me or to be offensive to me or other members of this forum or any people. If you do that, I need to do what I can to make sure you come to realize that is inappropriate and you should be careful about doing so...

Ah. Just got the "orphan" insinuation now. Meaning, don't I think their fathers will come and kill me? lol I'll have to be sure to screen for amenable relatives or yeah, orphans. Here most of the girls/women are "pseudo orphans" because they are one of 7 sisters and brothers, and their parents...

Love your response. You are also very objective and direct. I really trust your foresight. I might just have to let her go. I'm thinking I will have to. It's probably the most respectful thing I could do. If she wants to come back she can, but the best thing would be to show I respect her own...

This has got to be one of my favorite responses. I absolutely love your objectivity. Thank you deeply for responding. I really appreciate it. If possible in the future, may I simply private message you if I have a question requiring your sensibilities? Ok, I do believe that, but I am also open...

None of that is what was inciting me. You don't need to apologize for any of that. What was inciting to me was how you were taking my words and presuming negative things about me in front of others in what appeared to be some kind of endless quest for you to choose to belittle me in front of...

Yeah much better English thanks! Ohh, no I think she spit out her coke because maybe my response was so long? I have no idea. I asked why, but I didn't get an answer. Of course. But mistakes will happen. But thanks, yes, very true. Yeah well I am just such a virgin to the poly community. It was...

You, are getting a rise, out of me. Don't talk to me the way you have been if you don't want frustrated incited responses. Take responsibility. Don't act blind to why I might be talking like that like you've been on vacation and have no idea what's going on.

Right now all I think we can do, is get a threesome happening, and reflect on the feelings that come up afterwards, and go from there. The whole "harem" thing is just a far off fantasy. First I need to get down the rabbit hole. Then we see about staying or not. Well the women in Vegas are far...

I have talked about how mature I am. Ok. Is there something wrong with that? Why did you need to flip off the handle because I know I am a mature person and when everyone is trying to figure me out, I go ahead and supply that for everyone so they have a better idea of what kind of person I am so...

Hey this tone is much better. Thank you. I'm going to respond to this one now. Appreciate you toning it down.

Wow, you really like to just project your own opinions onto other's statements. First of all, when I said "cock-block", I was talking about her, meaning as a girl trying to hoard the action. Meaning, she was the one who wanted to have sex with the other girl and prevent me from having as much...

Wow. Did I ever say that? No. Talk about you guys taking my words and running with it. I am far from the most mature man in the world. Far far far far from it. Go back and re-read what I wrote and try not to project your own opinions about what I'm saying into it and instead be a good listener...

Well that's not how I am. It'd be cool if you could point them out to me so I know what words or phrases I'm using that are coming across that way. If you wouldn't mind.

haha, now that was funny :P

Thanks. And that's ok. Let them be who they are. I appreciate you keeping the discussion on track for me since I am new hear and easily steamrolled. Best regards and until there are any new developments, I've gotten a lot out of this, and some members PM-ed me with some great links to check out...

Sure... Um, yeah I don't have a problem with that. So I'm not sure where everyone is getting the idea that I am a male chauvinist. There has been a lot of talk about this "harem" concept, but that's not really what this post was even about. That might be a fantasy and I've got some ideas jotted...

Ok you really need me to defend myself? Why do you need that? Just because you are offensive does not mean I owe you my defense. I'm perfectly happy with you being the kind of person who thinks they have me all figured out and can label and judge me. I'm not stupid, I read exactly how you see...