Search results

I generally agree with the rest of dazedandlost's comments, except this bit. This isn't a religious war. Conversion is not required. People seem to continually cast this as an all-or-none, good-versus-evil type of situation. It's just not so, though admittedly, it can feel like it. It's about...

That particular point was about you gaining an understanding of her viewpoint, not in your interest in dating. I understand that you probably have zero interest in dating other women. I say this because I also had no interest in seeing other women. The desired outcome, for me, is to maximize...

Thanks! Yes, sure, I'd be glad to. I don't want to sidetrack this thread but if you let me know what you're looking for in terms of modifications, I can take a whack at it. Maybe you can message me directly rather than on the thread.

I've been reading this thread with some interest because I feel a lot of empathy for Bold. Bold's comments could have come directly from my own journal. As someone who is (still) transitioning from a completely mono viewpoint to a poly relationship, l can tell you some of the things I went...