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Unless you're looking to attract anarchists. I'd totally have more interest post-quote. lol. Typing errors and such aside, they look fine.

Is it him having other partners, or just THIS partner? All I can recommend are time, lots of thought, self-examination, reading, and more time. I'm not married, but in the end of February of 2013, I left my boyfriend/baby-daddy because as much as I could logically wrap my head around the idea...

Coming from a mono place, I understand why you having a history with the guy could be upsetting, but it's based in emotion and fear, not in logic. You're still with husband. You haven't left him for ex since opening, and wouldn't leave him for ex now. I'm sorry you're hurting. :(

Thanks, all. I think I may do that. Just send a thank you card, put all of our names in it. I don't think the caffeine thing needs to be addressed again as the mister said he'd mentioned it to her, because he sampled the cookies first. I really don't want anything to do with her. She shoots...

I wouldn't mind seeing the one for the midwest folk, if they post articles.

So if you have read my "I don't like her." post you are somewhat familiar with this situation. So I'll continue from there. Scorpio was trying way too hard to be my friend. Texting, asking a bajilliion questions, and generally getting on my nerves with said questions. Apparently she wasn't...

You are trying to change. Good for you. Now ask yourself, do you really WANT to change, or do you just want it to work? Just want him to stop and be happy with just you? If you say you want to change, but you don't REALLY WANT TO deep down, you're going to have a bad time. I'm not saying this...

Thanks, you guys. I think that's pretty much what I was already telling myself. Liking her is not a necessity, though it might be something he wants, and living with someone I don't want to live with shouldn't even be on the table.

Let me summarize just in case a few of you remember my name. I left my boyfriend and I moved away with our son and long story short it was awful, I did a lot of reading and thinking and blah blah blah and I came to terms with his desire to be involved with multiple people to whatever degree and...

Don't worry, I'm fine. I'm just kind of taking an internet break aside from my email and facebook. We're talking more. Considering the both of us moving back to where my family lives. Maybe renting from my brother and him transferring his job to the closest location. So, no worrying. If I'm not...

KyleKat, could I possibly PM you what I have in my email for you to go over? I'm upset, so I'm a little numb as to things in my writing that may come off as aggressive and simply make matters worse, and on top of that, I have a tendency to be super blunt when I'm not upset, and manage to upset...

I met him on OkCupid. We dated for a bit over a year where I am originally from before his roommate decided not to renew their lease and he ended up leaving the state. That's just how he is. Wants new experiences; people, places, things. After a month of being out here, he invited me to move...

Not good. He thinks my dislike of non-monogamy is a petty reason to leave and take our son with me. He has said things obviously designed to make me feel guilty and hurt. He wants me to stay and be more introspective. In regards to me asking him to close the relationship for a while before, he...

Because renting a vehicle and/or a trailer here is out of the question financially. It costs much more.

opalescent, I'm going to do exactly that. Thank you. thinker, I'm aware it's not a stable situation, but frankly it wouldn't matter if we were married because we are both very much opposed to the State being involved in private matters. Neither of us would ever push for child support or...

I should wait before responding when you've posted. ;p We don't own one of those kinds of seats. It was more economical to buy a convertible carseat and a soft structured carrier for carrying him around.

I will put it out there just that he has, on many occasions, shown that he cares about how I feel. He just has no interest in giving up the actions that upset me, and I get that. If he wants multiple partners, that's his right. And as has been stated, if I want the opposite, I have the right to...

I looked at the site of the airline I use, Southwest (yay cheap?), and they only allow FAA approved restraint devices, which we do not have one of and I am not sure how much one would cost. What we'd be looking at is my mom driving out here in her car with her husband to get my things and me...

So I called my mother yesterday morning to see what my options are. Financially, this could be pretty difficult. By land or air, the trip would be worst for the baby. Twenty four in a car? Five hours on my lap in a plane? Not even really considering the latter. Our car seat is not approved for...

Maybe his ego has taken a hit. I doubt it, though. I think he's really just frustrated as far as that part goes, or perhaps he feels like he needs those outings to get away from me and how I've been recently. That'd be ironic, given what put me in that mood. ----------- GG, you do a lot of...