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    Happy 11th Anniversary - Maca and LR

    Happy Anni guys. Good luck on the next 11 years!
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    Word Association Game!

    birth
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    Team Edward or Team Jacob?

    Almost always? Dresden can't even avoid getting his ass whooped in Butler's short stories! But I agree, well done Vamps there. I also enjoy Kim Harrison's Hallows series and Kelley Armstrong's Otherworld series (although vamps don't show up till book 3)
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    Is masturbation sex?

    *points at molten lava cake* Orgasm on a plate! Want!
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    Word Association Game!

    craving
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    Word Association Game!

    inevitable
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    impending custody battle

    First and foremost, find that lawyer. Secondly, put a hold on any and all sexual relations until after the divorce and custody is finalized, just to be safe. You don't want to give him any more ammo. But again most important is finding that lawyer. A few of the poly info sites have poly friendly...
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    My primary has a new partner...

    Ditto, I'd be pretty pissed off too. And ok, so I'm not into anal, but even with vaginal intercourse you can tell there is a slight difference between condom and no condom. Wait for the tests, and insist that they do nothing more until everyone is tested, not just you. Then it's talk and try...
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    impending custody battle

    One thing I am confused about is whether you are actually in a poly relationship with any of these friends. If you are, then you have a big battle on your hands. If you are not and they are only friends, then that should not be usable against you (all depending on country/state laws). I doubt...
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    Word Association Game!

    son-in-law
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    Is masturbation sex?

    Maybe it is partially a definition thing and maybe a gender thing. Perhaps cumming and orgasm are different for men then for women. Anyone else wish to weigh in on the subject? Although thinking about your answer, still doesn't change my reasoning...which perhaps I wasn't clear on. If Sex was...
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    Word Association Game!

    horse (see Dan Savage's weirdest letter ever received http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpICsV7l6ss)
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    Is masturbation sex?

    Maybe it's my Vanillaness or a definition thing, but I was under the impression that cumming and orgasm were the same, just different names. Do please share your thoughts on the subject. I'm always interested in learning new things and broadening my horizons. (honest request, no sarcasm either) ;)
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Still can't come up with a name... So baby is here, my little Prince, and we are all very happy to finally have him home and attached to me on the outside as opposed to the inside. He's doing really well and it is nice not to have more stress from what could have been another screamer in the...
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    Is masturbation sex?

    Sexually stimulating oneself in my book is still sex, whether it is done for the pleasure or just for the release. The basic end result is still the same, orgasm.
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    Word Association Game!

    gentlemen
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    Am I odd?

    I think that is one of the common misconceptions of poly/open relationships. Similar to the one I keep butting my head against. I'm a poly female, but I'm not bi! OMG! So the fact that you are not really interested in having a 3-some with your ladies doesn't make you odd, it makes you, you.
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    My name is Inigo Montoya, you...

    Welcome to the forums, you've come to a good place. I'm sure that there must have been some triggers in the last week that you are leaving out as being private, but the only way forward is to figure out what caused the change from acceptance and compersion back to jealousy and aversion. With...
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    This was MY idea...what have I done????

    welcome. It sounds like you and your hubby are not really ready for an open relationship. You have so much to work on and heal in your own relationship before getting others involved. Neither of you trust the other and it looks like the communications has broken down between to two of you...
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    What are you listening to now?

    no music again, but the sound of my hubby taking a shower, the background noises at the hospital but most importantly, the sounds of my newborn son gurgling, cheeping, farting then yeah, that sounded like a laugh to me. lol Men!
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