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    Warrant
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Why is it that all of these women (men too) who are so worried about "stalkers" and lame-o's that they can't/won't send a quick, "Thank you, but I'm not interested. Good Luck" have never heard of the ignore, block, or report buttons? It is good manners to acknowledge someone and thier...
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    pudding
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    magnatism
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    I agree with this thought too. I don't always go by %'s and will still look at their profile. I can tell if someone hasn't read mine usually with a minute as I get the "oh, you're married?" question. I also go through the questions to see how many same questions we answered sine that can effect...
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Thanks MG! Although I don't really have an -ism, all positive thoughts and prayers are always welcome. :) Me time activity will be getting my hair washed again! lol Maybe a date with the hubby/daddy too would be nice.
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    Hello forum

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    journeymen
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    New guy needs a name... So, last guy is out of the picture, he never contacted me and I'm ok with that. Now on to the new stuff... So I don't know if I mentioned anywhere (I can't find any posts) about one of the other guys that I started talking to through OKC. He had IM'd me after doing a...
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    horses
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    This is awesome guys, awe-inspiring and uplifting. One note, make sure the grandparents and family know of these wishes. as well. Although it is in the wills, it would suck if someone got it in their mind that they would be a better/more appropriate guardian than Mono, for whatever reason they...
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    vision
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    What are you listening to now?

    For once, I haven't turned on my music yet, so I am listening to the sounds of the world around me... My daughter struggling to wake up and sleep at the same time, one of the cats meowing like usual, voices outside as people go about their day, my daughter now getting up and crawling toward the...
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    Milano
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    vinegar
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    Experiences with therapy?

    I suppose my husband and I lucked out. We had been thinking of seeing a counselor/therapist for a while even before the poly stuff came up but just hadn't really gotten around to it. We ended up going to see a Sex Therapist through our health clinic and she is awesome. Which makes me ask, have...
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Hey! I resemble that statement! And believe me, if I could have the sex too, I would. ;)
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Another (personal) observation...NRE doesn't necessarily "go away" just because the object of the NRE does. I'm not sure if this is good or bad but for example, that high school bf/gf that you meet up with at a reunion or something and then boom! Here comes the butterflies, the cloud 9, and all...
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    First off, relax. :) There may be something to it, but as you are right to question, it could just be the NRE. I have had a similar experience and after the NRE wore off, I still have that strong feeling of connection but the need to be with him all the time has worn off. If you are worried...
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Strangely enough, your (b) sounds a bit like Cajun and I. When we first met there was a little NRE, but nothing anywhere close to the NRE I have felt with others before or since. Although I don't think either of us consciously tried to hold back the NRE, it just never really revved up, yet we...
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