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    Babies

    Here is a thought. I had this problem with a guy I was just seeing many (over 10) years ago. My mom had made a stupid comment while I was on the phone with him about my being "late". You could almost hear his head snap up and his eyes go into "holy shit!" mode. He asked if I was, and since...
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Thanks Rick and Ceoli. Rick, thank you for your story and yes, it does feel that way sometimes. He makes me feel like I'm back in high school sometimes with how anxious I'd get when we do get to spend any time together. But I will wait on the flirting thing. I have a habit of jumping off the...
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    slander
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Frustrate the crap out of you? LMAO! How do you think I feel. :) It was very cathartic to share all of that though, sorry if it went a bit stream of consciousness on y'all.
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Second lunch didn't go quite as well as first lunch but fate tried to mess with us again. Elric's relief was about 30 minutes + late so he felt he had to hurry as he had lots of work to get done. He also had to leave right after work as he had an interview to go to. Lunch itself went ok, we...
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    Long info dump vent...

    To be continued here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2295
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    lenders
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    An embarrassing insecurity (penis size)

    I think that is because women don't have a daily reminder of the size of our vaginas like a man does his penis. Heck, it's easier for a male to measure his parts than it is for a female, unless the female really wants to stick a ruler up there. Anyone know of a round dildo-shaped ruler?
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    unrested
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    poly love letter

    This one really hit a chord with me. I guess I can tack it up with the "would have been nice" wishes. Thank you for sharing this.
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    I was back in IL for a few days (in IL still until tomorrow actually) and Elric and I finally found a time to get together and try to just be friends. Our first non-dramarific meeting was for lunch today. I picked him up at work (not even 2 minutes from my hotel) and we went and grabbed food...
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    The Vandalin Saga...

    Ok, so I had to come up with some sort of title and that kind of fit. This is to get my story out of the "New to Poly" thread as although I am still new to it, this is an old story that keeps continuing and is fully a life story which I intend to update as necessary. So if you are not familiar...
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    divested
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    polyamorous social convention: Neanderthal Parallax

    I haven't read this one, but I did read a short story (I'm sure I have the anthology it was in somewhere in my basement) that this reminded me of. In this speculative fiction peice there were three scientists, two female one male. The man and one of the women were married and she was also...
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    lost sight of us in my greed for me

    I can totally understand this feeling. There are days when I can go without thinking about Elric and all is well. Then I have days (or usually nights while trying to fall asleep) where he is my "pink elephant". Depending on my hormones (being pregnant), my mood during the day, and when the last...
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    Just kind of fell into this…

    Welcome! My husband is the same, not interested in anyone else while I am the one who fell. Enjoy the NRE no matter what may come. :)
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    Abuse

    Redsirenn, do you have a link to this article? A large part of the problem I am seeing in this discussion is that we are discussing OUR ideas of abuse but there is not mention of what the AUTHOR defines as abuse. Is she talking about specific kinds or degrees of abuse lead one to poly or abuse...
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    Mono marriage in trouble

    Trust and communication are the two most important factors in any relationship. Although my husband and I have not had any problems in these areas, we have had a few problems and so have seeked a sexual health counselor. She had recommended a couple books, one of which dealt with Poly and the...
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    bowling
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    riveted sorry, closest I could come.
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