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Have you told "K" that you are still interested in him? Sometimes one likes vanilla ice cream, but sometimes one has to have something different, like chocolate ice cream. That does not make vanilla ice cream bad, they are both desireable. Each person has different traits that draw you to him...

Hi Mayflower, My current gf is bi. She goes through "phases" for a few years, where sometimes she likes women, sometimes men. She is currently in a "man" phase, so we are dating. You may have "phases" also. Don't worry about it. Try to accept yourself for who you are. She has a need to be in...

Oops. Maybe Detroit=DTW?

Why does it have to be a woman? Why can't a guy who is sensitive, caring, and a good listener, use sex as one method of healing and restoring trust in an individual? Comments please.

I'm a guy and an American. I have noticed the problem of double standards. A guy can be a "stud," but a girl is a "slut." I never subscribed to these definitions. Here is the definition I use: - Slut: a person who is dishonest about dating/sleeping with multiple people, not necessarily a girl...

Hi, I'm new here, I think I have 6 posts. This forum software looks very similar to many other forums I've been on, and that I've run myself. These forums have a Quick Reply box at the bottom of each thread page, where you just type in your reply and hit Post/Submit. On this forum, first I...

1. You should not try to seduce him. He has already said he is not comfortable with sex with you at this time. That is his choice, regardless of the basis for that choice. 2. If he is not a good fit, try someone else. 3. Another idea. Has he met your husband? Maybe he feels guilty because he...

If Bud's relationship with his Sally is certain to end soon, what is to be gained by him revealing the truth that he is poly with another couple? In this case, the truth will only cause anger. While I support the truth in most cases, I think this one is exceptional.

Cranberry, maybe you need to just take a break from this relationship. Jen is having a tough pregnancy, is moody and grouchy. Ed sounds like he's trying to be supportive while Jen goes through a tough time. Maybe you should return after the kid is born. Perhaps you could help out with some...

IMO: the general public never understands poly stuff, so the secondary person/people is always referred to as "a friend" and that's it. You don't have to make your private life public and open to hypocritical judgment.

Here's an idea. How about you get to know the guy for a bit, and if you see a future with him, he meets your husband before things get sexual.

Hello from Michigan. You must be from Detroit, yes? DFW = Detroit airport code