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Okay, so, we are in a V relationship, with my hubby Bo as the hinge. Well, maybe it's a triangle, because his girlfriend and I have a sister-like relationship. We have built this relationship, and were all in a great place. I asked the girlfriend to come to our twin boys' birthday party. She...

It's been 5 hours since Bo left, and I have now entered into the realm of struggle. My primary is still out with his girlfriend, and I find myself periodically wandering into thoughts of what they might be doing right now. Crap, I was doing so well. I am trying so hard to be 100% okay, but I...

Hello all, I just purchased The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory. I totally love this book. It is an easy read, with just the right amount of dry humor to provide a laugh every now and then. :p I am sure many of you know about this book, but if there is anyone out there that has...

:eek: Hello, My husband Bo and I have been poly for a couple of years now. He has been dating his ex-wife. They have actually been off and on since before Bo and I met. They decided to continue their off and on relationship even though I entered the picture. The policy before has been "don't...

Hey everyone, Bo and I are giving it a go again. Our very first FMF relationship did not work out. It had much to do with the way it started. Bo husband admitted to having a relationship with Bess behind my back and had been secretly building a relationship with her for 6 months when I found...

Well, Bo found a partner. We all met today and talked. They have a past. I won't go into it, but if you want to know, just ask. Hannah is great, fine with my boundaries and everything. Being excited, Bo asked to go see her tonight. I told him I was okay with it. They have my okay to do what...

Hello everyone, You may or may not remember, but a little over a year ago I joined this forum. My husband revealed that he was having an affair...had been involved with S for some time. We had just had twin boys a year prior to his confession so our relationship was definitely strained. To...

Hello Everyone, Its been about a week since I last posted. Well things have greatly changed between LoveisEvol, Crunchymama, and me. After reading her thread and her post here, I began feeling very guilty about the boundaries Bo and I put into place. I also knew that I was not ready to lift...

My husband Bo recently asked for an open marriage after admitting he had a mistress (call her Bess). I am working on forgiving him, and have agreed to working towards a poly relationship with his mistress/secondary. I am deeply hurt. I manage to push it away and forget about it, but it comes...

Hello, It has been about 6 weeks now since my marriage has opened. My husband Bo has added a woman, Bess, to our relationship. This came to be because Bo came clean about cheating on me with her (for 5 months before I found out). Before this, we shared 4 monogamous years together. I hate...

Hi, I posted a couple of days ago seeking advice...information...help from anyone and anything. I was desperate. My husband and I have been married for 4 years now...just this month he admitted to cheating with another woman....for the first few days after that he explained that he still...

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. Just 1 week ago, he came to me explaining that he is a poly by nature. Now he didn't say that exactly, and in fact, he didn't know what it was or what it was called. The other woman looked it up and help us learn that it is poly...which led me...