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Here's the thing. Now that I've experienced love with another person (MD), a different love built on an intense connection, I am questioning my relationship with my husband FJ. And I feel utterly ungrateful and selfish. Is this just bound to happen with polyamory? I have a blog up, so you can...

At my most recent visit to the gyno, my Pap test was abnormal, and my HPV test was positive for a high-risk strain. I got the letter on Saturday. I'd changed phone numbers and forgot to let the doctor know. So I have to wait until tomorrow to call with any questions. But I'm kinda freaking out...

This is a practical question. I know everyone will feel differently about this. Do you feel comfortable having sex with your partner after they've had sex with their OSO? Why or why not? My husband FJ is about to come home after his first alone date with MD. I'm fairly certain they will have...

Blah. Life is never boring these days, that's for sure. So my newest quest for advice, talking down from the cliff, or what have you, is about a partner who is constantly either hot or cold. MD goes back and forth with her feelings. She says that she loves me, has feelings for FJ, and thinks...

It's so damn hard to find a title for my blog! I literally wrote 4 different titles, but hell, I'll never start blogging if I can't move past the title. I started posting here not too long ago, and have done quite a bit of reading through this forum, which has been immensely helpful. So I...

I am in a good place right now with my relationships. Overcoming jealousy, head over heels in love, moving past communication barriers, being open and honest. But the biggest concern nagging me is the secrecy and hiding of my relationship (and FJ's, for that matter) with MD. We live in a very...

I feel like I should link to my stories before diving into my newest poly struggle: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40446 http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=44029 But I'll try and summarize here as well: My hubby FJ and I have been together since I was 14 and he...

I've posted only a couple of times, but you can find my intro here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40446 So, an update. :) Things have been slow-going for MD and me. We have spent lots of time together, but without much physical activity, and on a very solid friend basis for...

So, I've been very best friends with LT since I was 16 or so. We had babies together, both married our high school sweethearts, and have grown as adults together. I still see her 4-5 times a year since we have moved to diff areas of the country. Here's my dilemma. I haven't told her about my 4...

To catch up on my story, here's my intro: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40446 So, where we are now.... All is well on the front with my husband FJ & I. We are in a really good place of understanding and connection. But (there's always a but, isn't there?) my gf MD is a...

You can read my intro here: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=40446 So since then, my husband, F, and I have had some really fabulous conversations about what we both want from our relationship right now. He is the very definition of compersion, and I respect him so much for...

I'm seeking advice from those who have been there. My back story: I met my husband when I was 14. We dated for 4 years, got married when I was 18 and he was 21. We were virgins when we got married. We have now been married almost 14 years. He is amazing. We have a wild sex life with each other...