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  1. bimblynim

    Old habits// buried or changed????

    wow. Macca and LR, Thank you guys so much for being open with this. It totally counteracts the "poly peeps are just selfish/messed up/damaged" fear response i'm being met with atm by those arround me, and reinforces my belief that poly can be good and helpful and healthy :) Also makes me feel...
  2. bimblynim

    Is masturbation sex?

    Sarkyness asside I'm with Darby, validin and raise (etc). I have masterbated for as long as i can remember, I am fortunate and was never abused however I masterbated way, way before I knew what sex is. The earliest fantasies I used for masterbation were entirely non "sexy." It was purely a...
  3. bimblynim

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Fab thread. :) I love reading people's answers! For myself, once when asked to play the "What animal would you be?" game, I decided on bumblebee, because they are independent, jolly and positive. Bumblebee contracted to Bumbly, to bimbly (harmless and friendly ambling). Nim is a contraction of...
  4. bimblynim

    Hello Everybody!

    Wow! sounds fab :0) horray for compersion! saw in one of your other posts you're into neuropsych? (i did psych for my base degree, have always found it facinating) anyhow, cheery greetings! *waves hello* :)
  5. bimblynim

    Redpepper's journey

    nice to hear :) and beautiful mental image (peeking) bon chance :)
  6. bimblynim

    OKC in the house?

    just joined as Sesquipedalian4, its amazing :0)! Cheers ceoli :0) x
  7. bimblynim

    Secondary guilt/triggers?

    Aw gemini girl that sounds rubish, I don't have a completely direct comparison, but was in sort of similar place a while ago. One of my best friends from school is male, we went to diffent uni's and he met his (now ex -but thats irrelivant) girlfriend there, when I went up to visit she was...
  8. bimblynim

    When does attraction start?

    Bizzarly/sadly i've yet to be physically actracted/fancy anyone I like as a person. (obv ocasionally in the street i've no way of knowing) but unfortunately my body mostly seems to like assholes :( (no not a scat fetish just dogdy phraising :p) In terms of general atraction i'm pretty much with...
  9. bimblynim

    non-sexual emotional connection

    Sometimes also same gender friends. Sorry, guess I'm still sore over X (tbh that will prob colour this post but its where i am atm), guess this is thread is also interesting for me for side link to poly and asexuality (but thats prob a different thread) Ari- empathy if you got burned by friends...
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    Redpepper's journey

    Sorry to hear you guys are in such a difficult place. I'm another who really appreciates other's journeys, so thanks for sharing. Good luck to you all. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I don't think its an oncoming train. And even if it is, we may as well see what shiny things we can...
  11. bimblynim

    meeting his wife

    Sweet! I'm so glad it went well. Sorry, I hadn't seen this when I posted before. Good luck. :D
  12. bimblynim

    "Hi, I'm poly and I don't exist."

    thanks mindful agony. Far as I'm aware although the formation of language (area of particular interest to me) is an interaction it certainly has a biological componnent, the technology/funding for reaserch into it just hasn't got very far yet. Same goes for cognitive processes more gernerally...
  13. bimblynim

    Ari's Blog - Beginning

    Wow, amazing jouney, thanks for sharing.:D
  14. bimblynim

    "Hi, I'm poly and I don't exist."

    hear hear! That said I do find exploring the explantions people have come up with so far really interesting :cool:
  15. bimblynim

    Openly Engaged

    woop woop! just wanted to add to the congrats!
  16. bimblynim

    Is it possible to over-communicate?

    Wow, what an interesting thread! And freakily I have also been thinking a lot obout this very issue, due to on-going negotiations arround specific friendships. Amasing reading everyone's replies! I have to say I also love the validation I feel from open verbal communication, thanks guys! In...
  17. bimblynim

    are there poly people living mono on here?

    I wonder if there are lots of people like that (poly but commited to mono relationships) that make it work for their partner and probably to an extent societal expectation. I only recently came across polly as a concept myself and as it happens when I told one of my friends about it she said...
  18. bimblynim

    meeting his wife

    Hey, I totally empathise. I find running or swimming really helps me for crazy excess energy. (Slakes the flight/fight response? Who knows? Dang nervous system!) Anyhow, good luck!
  19. bimblynim

    Our Girlfriend may be moving closer!!

    Yay! so excited for you! hope it works out well :D (any tips apriciated!)
  20. bimblynim

    Word Association Game!

    owl (and pussycat)
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