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wow. Macca and LR, Thank you guys so much for being open with this. It totally counteracts the "poly peeps are just selfish/messed up/damaged" fear response i'm being met with atm by those arround me, and reinforces my belief that poly can be good and helpful and healthy :) Also makes me feel...

Sarkyness asside I'm with Darby, validin and raise (etc). I have masterbated for as long as i can remember, I am fortunate and was never abused however I masterbated way, way before I knew what sex is. The earliest fantasies I used for masterbation were entirely non "sexy." It was purely a...

Fab thread. :) I love reading people's answers! For myself, once when asked to play the "What animal would you be?" game, I decided on bumblebee, because they are independent, jolly and positive. Bumblebee contracted to Bumbly, to bimbly (harmless and friendly ambling). Nim is a contraction of...

Wow! sounds fab :0) horray for compersion! saw in one of your other posts you're into neuropsych? (i did psych for my base degree, have always found it facinating) anyhow, cheery greetings! *waves hello* :)

nice to hear :) and beautiful mental image (peeking) bon chance :)

just joined as Sesquipedalian4, its amazing :0)! Cheers ceoli :0) x

Aw gemini girl that sounds rubish, I don't have a completely direct comparison, but was in sort of similar place a while ago. One of my best friends from school is male, we went to diffent uni's and he met his (now ex -but thats irrelivant) girlfriend there, when I went up to visit she was...

Bizzarly/sadly i've yet to be physically actracted/fancy anyone I like as a person. (obv ocasionally in the street i've no way of knowing) but unfortunately my body mostly seems to like assholes :( (no not a scat fetish just dogdy phraising :p) In terms of general atraction i'm pretty much with...

Sometimes also same gender friends. Sorry, guess I'm still sore over X (tbh that will prob colour this post but its where i am atm), guess this is thread is also interesting for me for side link to poly and asexuality (but thats prob a different thread) Ari- empathy if you got burned by friends...

Sorry to hear you guys are in such a difficult place. I'm another who really appreciates other's journeys, so thanks for sharing. Good luck to you all. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I don't think its an oncoming train. And even if it is, we may as well see what shiny things we can...

Sweet! I'm so glad it went well. Sorry, I hadn't seen this when I posted before. Good luck. :D

thanks mindful agony. Far as I'm aware although the formation of language (area of particular interest to me) is an interaction it certainly has a biological componnent, the technology/funding for reaserch into it just hasn't got very far yet. Same goes for cognitive processes more gernerally...

Wow, amazing jouney, thanks for sharing.:D

hear hear! That said I do find exploring the explantions people have come up with so far really interesting :cool:

woop woop! just wanted to add to the congrats!

Wow, what an interesting thread! And freakily I have also been thinking a lot obout this very issue, due to on-going negotiations arround specific friendships. Amasing reading everyone's replies! I have to say I also love the validation I feel from open verbal communication, thanks guys! In...

I wonder if there are lots of people like that (poly but commited to mono relationships) that make it work for their partner and probably to an extent societal expectation. I only recently came across polly as a concept myself and as it happens when I told one of my friends about it she said...

Hey, I totally empathise. I find running or swimming really helps me for crazy excess energy. (Slakes the flight/fight response? Who knows? Dang nervous system!) Anyhow, good luck!

Yay! so excited for you! hope it works out well :D (any tips apriciated!)

owl (and pussycat)