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Crazy? No. It's fascinating to me. I experience auras, but they tend to be pretty stable in terms of colour and hue (which seems to reflect personality). To me, changes in mood, etc., are reflected in the "shape"/quality of the aura. (I'm using "" because they are the best way I've found of...

Hello friendly person! thanks for making me feel welcome, have a good day :0)

situation update Hey Thanks for the empathy and suggestions, SchrodingersCat, also you reminded me i haven't updated the progress. using this vent was really helpful for me cool down and help me crystalise my thinking. Also its been a time where I've learned alot about my emotional needs...

ooh thanks for sharing! v intersting! :D

Hi fab food for thought Ceoli, I'd never considered it before but I think you're right about beliefs totally underpinning how we live our lives. However i think we differ in our views regarding the interrelationship of feelings and beliefs, (before I go any further I think it’s important to...

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maybe i misread it (have dyslexia and often read things a different way each time) will look again no my interpretation hasn't changed (so far, though obv please clarify) "What does nature want us to be doing? You know... it really doesn't matter" I agree with this and think sometimes...

Hey From what i've read, if your not comfortable with him staying the night you are fullly within your rights to say so. Its not just about sex. Again from reading i've seen diferent relationship styles, it might depend on whether your husband wants the new lady as secondary to your...

Thanks, this is probably true. I supose i was stuggling because in the past she has felt very close and it has been reciprcal. What i have trouble dealing with is that its not that she's not capable of feeling close to me its that she's not capable of feeling close to me at the moment - or...

Interesting Ideas, are you advocating that nurture (attachment history etc) is more important in our personality formation than genetic factors? "What if we left nature and biology out of the whole argument and just considered being poly or being monogamous as subscribing to a certain set of...

Yay! I'd forgotten about post secret they're awsome! thanks for sharing:D:

Thanks ari, i appriciate the empathy. I suspect this is the nub of it, i see us as "just friends" because there is no sexual chemistry or life sharing commitment between us, but i care alot about her and would like that in return. I think she equates deep caring and responsibility only to...

I have been banging my head for a while agaist the wall of a friend X who I'm coming to see as unconsiously selfish. She comes to me for support and I like helping her but she is very restricted in her world view and distances herself from people with problems she doesn't understand/ can't...

hey is that cowley Rd OX4? just 'cause that's where I live!!! Good luck with your situation, nim

Thanks for the reply, its really intresting (currently totally intrigued by peoples journey's) and I'm so glad its good for you!! :0) also, thank-you for the forum its awsome! such a cool resource! and i'm totally with you on the harming none philosophy! Also well aware that i have a rocky road...

yay! good luck!

thanks guys Like your tag btw Marksbabygirl, its fab :0) Yeah I was quite amused by the fact that I had an epiphany in M&S - glad it tickled you. reddpepper from what i've read you're in a v or maybe fork type relationship, hope you don't mind my asking, is it something you went looking for...

A triangle is what i'm looking for, though unless by staggering co-incidence you live round the south east uk, i guess I can only wish you the very best figuring it all out, i'd be really interested to hear how it works out tho :0) x

Yay :0) that's awsome! Its wierd how relitively few of us their are but horray for them! :D hope it all goes brilliantly!

Thanks Eugenepoet. I'm female, didn't think to say (and didn't realise I was a "unicorn" til today) The stuff on secondaries is really interesting. As I said I'm used to being single so would want to take things slow, having said that my ideal is a triangle, I'm thinking hopefully if i'm...