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I think we may have turned a corner. Infinity spent several hours with Galaxy and her husband yesterday evening. When i got home from work he was in a much better mind set about everything.

He and the boy child are actually spending time with Galaxy and her family. I want to be there with all of them so bad but im working and maybe it gives them a chance to to get more comfortable with things.

Finally a small aha moment. Galaxy was going to bring me supper that she made. Infinity wanted to bring me supper as well. Galaxy started feeling bad(fibro) and they managed to work it out between them that Galaxy would make supper and Infinity would pick it up and bring it to me. Not sure whose...

I have done a lot of thinking and made some choices. I am not choosing 1 of them over the other or 1 of them instead of the other. I am choosing me. I choose to be true to me and love me and not make myself less so others can feel secure. This is not my emotional work to do. It is Infinity's...

He has been swinging alone. He literally just said last night he wants to stop swinging. He also that he doesn't want to ask me to stop seeing Galaxy because he knows id be upset but he wants to make it so hard on us that she and i stop seeing each other. He is very scared of the emotional...

We have done that. Infinity admitted today that he is confused and at times wants to make things so damn hard for me and Galaxy that one of us will say we cant handle it anymore and end the relationship so that he doesn't have to be the one to tell me to choose or give me an ultimatum to end my...

Ok, i recently started a new relationship with a woman I'll call Galaxy. Things are good between us. The NRE is strong right now and we try to keep it under control. Infinity (my husband) is struggling big time with all of this. Infinity is more swinger than poly. He wants things clearly...

Dont know why i didn't see this before now, but i have come to realize that while i am poly, Infinity is a swinger. I want relationships and the emotional connection and to Infinity its just sex with anyone but me. Not sure how to overcome this. Infinity is struggling to understand that just...

So far things are good with my new girlfriend. Its nice to be with someone that openly aand easily communicates.

Its always a wonder and pleasant surprise when you aren't looking for anything and yet something finds you. When a friendship you planned to just let develop in whatever way its going to begins to develop into more. I knew the potential was there but still taken by surprise because i wasn't...

NRE... that wonderful magical thing that feels so amazing yet can be so hard to deal with.

I have run a gamut of emotions over the last 2 weeks. I have seen sides of Infinity and Mustang I would have never imagined. It's made me question some things and I come to the same answers I always have. I love Infinity more than I can express, and after 13 and a half years together our...

My ideal for me is to have 1 husband and 1 wife, whether they are involved or not, not necessarily all under 1 roof, unless they both want that.

She is angry, I get that, and she is looking for someone to take it out on. That happens to be me. She tries to bait me into a fight and I refuse to fight or argue or take my feelings out on Mustang or Infinity so I respond with level headed kindness and continue to act as I would for any friend...

A week after they broke up. I have learned she thought of this is more him and her and me as the extra. She and i have been communicating as friends, but I'm catching all of her post break up grief. She is angry with him and takes it out on me. I'm dealing with my own grief and I understand she...

It all seems to be easier than I expected for it to actually be over. I'm sad, but it's not like it was in the past when they would say it was over and I had this crazy sense of panic and urgency to fix it all.

I agree. It has been very up and down, back and forth as well as off and on. I don't know why I have continued to try to make this work other than I just don't know how to give up until I have exhausted all options to fix things. This weekend has kind of brought me to that point. This has been...

Comments, advice, help welcomed When you realize your current relationship is not healthy for you what do you do? I love both of my partners so much, but their relationship is not healthy and it creates an unhealthy triad for us all. I don't know what I should do right now. I want them both and...

I have a group of friends that all live next to each other that are like that. They are all welcome in each others homes at any time and all pitch in to help each other when needed. They are all involved and aware of who and what everyone is doing and all friends or partners and ok with it. It's...