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I actually avoid being a go between as much as I can. I offer advice or try to help them understand each other. I also tell them to talk to each other. I do not relay messages or speak for one to the other.

It was very interesting to read this. It gives some pause for thought. Thank you.

Thank you. I know why Infinity feels the way he does. It goes back to a previous poly relationship. I was put in a position where I had to choose one or the other. I was very new to all of this and Infinity and I were going through a really difficult place in our marriage at the same time. I...

Comments, advice, help welcomed How do I help Infinity understand I'm OK with how he feels and that he doesn't have to hide affection for Mustang from me out of fear I will not be comfortable with it? Infinity has a big fear that one day I'm going to become jealous or something and force him to...

I'm enjoying watching Infinity and Mustang falling for each other. It's awesome to be able to watch a relationship from this perspective. It's also nice that when they struggle to understand each other and they ask for advice I can give them specifics and not just general stuff like I would a...

Completely agree. Right now it's more of a V with potential of being a functioning triad. I'm OK with that.

Oh the twists and turns relationships can take. So Infinity and Mustang have worked through a lot and now seem to be in a good place with each other, both admitting wjat they feel for each other. I'm genuinely excited and happy for them. I have a little fear that somehow I will be forgotten...

My previous relationship I was the "bi-curious" one. She had experience and I had none. It took me all of about 1 kiss to figure out I wasn't just curious. So I am thankful she was willing to take on someone with no experience, but she also wasn't exactly teaching me anything sexually since I...

I have been the "unicorn" in a triad. I'm also currently dealing with a triad that recently ended. When I was a unicorn there were so many rules for me. I loved both my partners a great deal but in different ways. I could not make my gf understand that. After I left it realized just how badly...

So over the last week or so I have done a lot of thinking. Bear with me this my be hard to follow. I am a very dominant person by nature. I am dominant in and out of the bedroom. In my entire relationship with Mustang I spent time gaining her trust and trying to show her I could and would care...

I'm pierced and it actually wasn't for the look, tho I do love the way it looks. I got a VCH piercing for the added pleasure it gives me. Like I said though, I like the look and think it is hot.

When you want to hide away somewhere and block everything and everyone out, but you can't. Ready to be over this already.

Still stumbling along trying to feel my way thru all the emotions and changes. Still questioning it all. I do not feel peaceful. Everything inside feels chaotic and like it's spinning out of reach as I attempt to desperately grasp for something solid to hold on to and begin to reorganize my life.

Questions.... so many questions running through my mind the last few days. I'm questioning myself, why I'm in my relationships, questioning the people that surround me, where I am in my life and where I'm going in my life. So many things have opened my eyes to things I have ignored or pushed to...

I feel broken inside. I feel lost. There is a deep ache, an indescribable pain that seems to radiate thru me. I don't remember relationships I have had before hurting like this or hurting this much when they ended. Everything I need and wanted was so close I could touch it and then in the blink...

Wow!!!! So I've pretty much known but refused to accept or acknowledge that Mustang was using me. So yesterday she obviously wants Infinity to feel about her the way she does him. He may have if he hadn't seen she was using me and leading me own to try to get closer to him. There is a lot I...

Spent some time hanging out with Mustang this evening followed by dinner. Enjoyed absolutely every minute of it just spending time together just talking. I can completely be her friend if that is what she wants, but every single time I hang out with her she peels back another small layer of who...

Infinity and I are trying to remain friends. Our relationship was built on a friendship we had long before becoming romantically involved. The feelings are still there for both of us. She is uncomfortable with being with me when she knows she still wants him as well. She believes that if she and...

Irritated with Infinity right now. He wants to swing. Ok, I get it. However, I'm not ready to move on and not wanting to swing. He says I'm free to have another relationship if I want, but knowing him, I can already tell you how that is going to go. I struggle with sex just to have sex. He wants...

Thought there may be potential for a v when our triad ended. Apparently not and losing it all hurts.