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  1. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    We all have those moments where we hit an emotional wall, right? I did today/tonight. I'm trying to quit smoking so I'm having to try to learn to handle the things that stress me out differently. Today was mine and V's anniversary. Tabs was here yesterday and last night. I always go into a funk...
  2. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    No, just meant I hate when she has been with us and then has to go back home. I see her every day at work but she can only stay at our house on weekends for now. I enjoy our completely normal boring weekends chilling on the couch watching movies or football.
  3. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    The day I dread, the day she has to go leave after being here with us.
  4. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    We hope, but I'm thinking she wont.
  5. StumblingAlong

    Need some help...

    Quite hsppy to say they worked it out. She was pretty pissed and made it known. Pretty sure he won't be doing that again. Kevin this was one of the issues I mentioned in post on my blog.
  6. StumblingAlong

    Need some help...

    I did give him a heads up last night. He noticed I had something on my mind and he ask what it was. I told him I was upset because I was put in that position and that she ask about it and I told her the truth.
  7. StumblingAlong

    Need some help...

    Quick back story... last weekend both my partners told me I have to quit smoking. I get it, they care about me and my health. I agreed to quit. I did cave once and smoked. I told them and they got upset. Well we have this semi D/s under current to our relationship. Me telling them lead to me...
  8. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    That is us. We don't exactly lead an exciting life. It's home, kids, work and each other. Right now there are a couple things going on 1 of them being at work for me and her. She and I work together. I know probably not smart if things don't go well, but we keep our relationship pretty much...
  9. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    Started to write an update several times. Would either get aide tracked or was unable to find the words for what I wanted to say. Still not sure of what to say. Things are still going well.
  10. StumblingAlong

    Help! Parents bad reaction, threatening to take child away

    Well wishes for you. I have fought a similar battle. It is why for now both my partners and I agree to keep our relationship(s) from kids and their parents. We don't like it and prefer to be open about it, but for now we feel it is what's best. In my situation, my spouse and I began divorce...
  11. StumblingAlong

    Now for an odd ball question

    I have that difference. Both my partners have high sex drives. I am more like you. It's not easy, but I have to recognize my relationships with them are as different as they are and their relationship together is different from their relationships with me.
  12. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    This sucks! Laying in bed with the man I'm married to and wishing the girlfriend we share was here. I spend as much time with her each day as I do him. Doesn't help. I still miss her. I hate that for now circumstances keep us from all being together as much as we want. It's not just the sex. We...
  13. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    Well we have overcome our first truly hard day together. There was a misunderstanding that caused a ripple affect of hurt. It's all sorted out now and I'm glad. I did realize during it all just how much I do care for both of my partners. Watching them hurt knowing I couldn't do anything to fix...
  14. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    When it's been a hard stressful day and you walk in to your new partner having left you and your long term partner a card, flowers and favorite candy bars. She amazes me with how thoughtful and caring she is. Not sure how to adequately express how much I appreciate her.
  15. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    When you think you just screwed up with a new partner that is all new to poly, triads, and your ability to be openly honest. Tabitha and I were talking this evening. She has been reading trying to understand poly because she wants this to work and so far she likes it and the idea of it. So far...
  16. StumblingAlong

    Questions that I need guidance with

    Thank you. I want what you are saying to happen so badly. I don't want to watch them dance around where they are or what they feel. I want to be as supportive as possible of them while we go thru this growing and figuring it and each other all out phase.
  17. StumblingAlong

    Questions that I need guidance with

    So I am in a new triad relationship. Things have gone well so far and we have all enjoyed it. Thing is feelings are beginning to develop and NRE is starting to amp up. This just started about a month ago and became more than we all expected it to be. Well I expected this, I'm not sure they did...
  18. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    Wow! Went back and Re read my original post. Things sure did change, didn't they? Am I sorry they did? Nope, not in the least. It's not all champaign and roses, but it's not complete efing chaos and drama. Things have changed and we are trying something we weren't looking for or expecting...
  19. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    Yea, that would be me that got it. Haven't had it in a damn year and it picked this weekend to remind me it still exists. She cannot get hers. Still she had her first experience with a woman. It was better than she expected and while the 3 way wasn't quite what I hoped, it was still good.
  20. StumblingAlong

    So it begins...

    So tonight was absolutely freaking awesome!!! However, I despise mother nature and her crappy timing. Still, everything went way better than I expected. Had a small hiccup thanks to mother nature and her stupid ass sense of humor and timing, but we worked around it, everyone is good and now it's...
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