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Thank you both, that is very helpful. I don't really worry about him leaving me, although when he had previously cheated I did feel like he was lining up my replacement, but I am assured now that isn't the case, and becoming poly has been more about finding parameters within which we can...

I'm not really sure what it is that is going on in my brains :D I talked to my husband about this last night and it's not making any more sense to me. In short, I am in a triangular relationship with my husband and gf. My relationship with her is great, there are no issues on that count from...

TBH I don't ask for details. I don't believe he has ever actually punched her in the face, that does leave marks, he has slapped her, and I know her, and some other woman I have met on the BDSM scene would be OK with the odd black eye or split lip given in the right circumstances. It's their...

I have had a bit of this recently. My husband was away with my/our gf for the weekend and, as planned they did some fairly rough BDSM. Now I am kinky too, but like slightly different things to her, and the bruises she had were pinning down, "proper" beating (rather than more ritualised type...

I thought I had better say a proper hello. After a rocky start, with some great support from people here, I am just embarking on my first poly relationship (relationships?) I always thought I was a monogamous type person. I'm bisexual but always had one gender of partner or the other, I didn't...

Absolutely love her to bits, but she is a complete mess right now. She still has issues with her recent ex, was not well to start with, and the pregnancy is not doing her any good. We haven't talked a lot about DH, I mentioned some things and she told me she felt uncomfortable stuck in the...

And you are right, it has been an intense 36 months, as well as a baby, and a wedding, we have both lost our fathers and gone through some major personal development. We have been very strong as a couple and very good for each other throughout. It's not about to get easier quickly, we are moving...

I wouldn't say we were both in poly relationships before, I have had open, non-exclusive relationships where sex with others was not a problem, he has been more in relationships where sex with others was allowed usually in a BDSM way. I don't think either of us have ever had poly emotional...

I am 31, he is 26. He is very impulsive, optimistic, not a fine details kind of chap. He says he didn't want to tell me because he doesn't like to upset me, I have made it very clear that the way to not upset me is not to *do* the upsetting thing, not talking about it only makes it worse. He...

Thank you, I really want to sort it, we have big lovely life changing plans together and I love him so much, I really want it to work, but everything he says lately seems to be half-truths and deception. I don't think it's malicious, just very, very misguided and hurtful. It is also so...

OK this is not a completely poly orientated question, but I have asked on a hetro/norm forum and the poly element seems to really confuse the issue, so I thought I could do with some input from more open minded types. It's a bit long, so sorry! I am pregnant with our second child, DS is 20...