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I think I'll try my fucking best NOT to post on here anymore. I have my wife here with me, WE can talk things out as we have for 10 years. Venting on here has only caused us more stress and problems within our relationship! As she says using fucking nicknames on here and for others there is no...

Well since the night of our HUGE fight I've tried to stay off here, mainly not wanting to loose it and get myself banned :p As Glitter said I read her posts anyways since she would usually mention she posted something and if I wanted to come on to read it. In our case shes right here so we try...

It will be very difficult... I am pushing for us to work on things, for Glitter to pick up and follow through on her tasks. ie once case we were about to give up one of our dogs we've only had for about a month since he's not trained in anything including housebroken and Glitter always forgets...

Well we've had our own issues but lately I try to deal with it quicker directly with Glitter rather than venting on here or anywhere else. Tonight we had a massive blow up while I thought we would be dealing with things and calming the situation down out on a 5k walk. I did mention people keep...

@scubadiver1 - I believe I'm in that rut right now with banging my head against the wall trying to figure out how to find someone. I also have thought of sinking to just finding someone for casual sex in hopes it may lead to more. (There are plenty of women into casual sex and unhappy wives out...

I'm not sure what to add so it doesn't sound like I'm creating my own pity party, lol. I've been together with my wife for 10 years, married 7 years and newly poly for maybe 2 months. Aside from 1 week of bliss at the thought we might hit it off with an amazing couple it's been mostly hell for...

Well welcome to the forum trystann and I do understand changing those perceptions of what would normally be acceptable and unacceptable with other people. My wife and I have only truly been poly for a couple months. We did meet one couple nearby and we both had the same awkward moments they...

LOL! I started reading this and ready to reply since it come up as a "new post" never even thought about looking at the dates till I got to "nycindie" comments and looked up thinking huh!? I admit I've done the same thing, sometimes sections have old topics we come in and to use it's new so we...

Being new I don't feel I'm in a position to add any good advice but just wish it works out in the best way to lessen the amount of hurt you have to deal with :( My wife and I are only about 3 months into being Poly and aside from about a week of bliss it's been a pretty rotten experience for me...

It's rather difficult to get the tone and not sure which emoticon I should have used to show when I do have that thought in my head it's NOT that the person is ugly but I honestly do wonder if their ok. I guess yes I'm too bloody caring and it sucks sometimes. If the what I'm attracted to also...

@JaneQSmythe It's pretty much the same anywhere even in general dating sites. Sometimes the men outnumber women 10to1, 3to1 would be the lowest possible I'd think. Plus add on general dating sites many people are turned-off or even disgusted by Polyamory as I said before it's like a 3 strikes...

I'm so glad I stumbled across this topic. I've been on Facebook for years, after my wife talked me into it. Prior I thoughtit was something more stupid that just teens used. I only have one account but as I'm trying to meet new people I've cleaned myself and my Facebook page up drastically. Not...

By today's media standards yes I guess I do like fat women :p In my opinion most women who think their butt ugly and fat look perfectly fine to me and sometimes even stunning! *pondered with the hand on the chin looking up thinking* Nope I guess EVERY woman I've every been with or almost was at...

It would be nice for all of those who would use it. However personally I wouldn't as we've only been poly a few months and already see to some it's worse than being gay! :( Everyone instantly thinks oh your a polygamist now? I do get pissed sometimes when to society in general cheating...

My first experience with video games was when I was under 5 years old (way back so unsure how old I was) My older brother would usually be in the local arcade/pool hall as a teen. Honestly not sure if they were all 18+ back then, I remember some places at the 18+ sign on the doors. My older...

Well not going on and on to cause problems... we're doing pretty good today but as I am typing this it's turning into giving our history and I guess my thinking out loud or in txt. Yeah T and I have been that bad, I believe that was our worst time at the old apartment. The resentment grew, I...

Gonna be bad if we get into personal chat back and forth on here since we are sitting about 3 feet between eachother :p Yeah I was going to end it on that good note about the sex but kinda got distracted with the debate we had going on. So yeah I can't argue maybe it doesn't count when you...

@JaneQSmythe - As for the casual sex, I've always been that bloody innocent type which prefers to not have sex unless there is a damn good chance of a relationship. I know most guys would have their jaws drop going WTF!?!?!?! I don't know... It would be a bit much to explain how I felt through...

Well personally I'm having way more difficulty with this than I thought I would especially when things start lacking at home :( With home environment, untrained loud pets (barking, shitting and peeing inside, I usually leave it for T and just put up with the smell as am sick of it), lack of...

Well this name is rather new as my normal online username is used pretty much everywhere, includes my real first name and is also linked to Facebook. I actually did register it here but then had second thoughts and instead of asking to please delete the account or change my username I just made...