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The intention of the meal is, above the board, to give J a chance to meet Tonberry (they haven't met yet), and while I would like things to turn romantic with J I don't want to shout it from the rooftops. Even entertaining the idea of getting involved with her is straying into the territory of...

It's not much of an update, but between Tonberry and I we've planned out the menu for when we have J over for dinner. I'm naturally fretting over how to make a dinner to make a good impression without having obvious romantic overtones, because J doesn't know I'm in a poly relationship. As the...

Then it would sound like you're interested in a poly relationship, and I would recommend discussing that with your wife, because her saying you can "permission to be with other women here and there" sounds more like she wants you just to have some sexual release. I'm going to be honest with...

That's more akin to wife-swapping or swinging, as I understand it. Polyamory is being involved in a relationship with more than one person at a time, not just having sex. For example, while I am currently only involved with my wife, and would therefore be in a monoamorous relationship, she has...

I took mine from a pen and paper RPG, Werewolf the Apocalypse. My oldest brother, also a fan of the game, used to say I would be a ragabash (in the context of the game they're the ones who try to get people to question the way they think and act, hopefully for their betterment) and the name...

Well that's just because we have nothing else to do in our 12 months of constant blizzards than to go online and check out forums. :p

Thanks! It'll be good to be able to talk to other people who have either some experience or are in the same boat of still figuring out exactly how this all works. I guess while I'm posting I can add a bit more bio. I'm born and raised in small town Alberta, Canada, I'm heterosexual and not...

I might as well add my two cents in, seeing as this is also my story (I'm Tonberry's husband, for those of you who haven't seen the intro thread). It's been summed up pretty well, and yes, as she pointed out I do have some anxiety issues about feeling what I'm allowed to do and feel* that I'm...

I'm never quite sure where to start with introductory threads, so I might as well start by saying I'm Tonberry's husband. I'm 33, male, married (obviously), and currently only in a relationship with my wife who has a long-distance boyfriend. I wouldn't say I'm naturally polyamorous, but I'm not...