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I can definitely understand where you are coming from. It's kind of hard to get a feel for a situation through text. Believe me, the risks and the benefits and the children were all considered. The main reason that we went ahead with the move is because of the mutual friend and our confidence...

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OH btw, he forgot to claim me. I'm his Wife. Haha.

welcome

I really hate these terms too. A and I have a family, so of course our family comes first, but V is no less important.

I also forgot to add that I spent nearly an hour on the phone with V with A sitting right next to me last night. It was very encouraging.

LR wrote my story for me, apparently. We came out publicly this month, but I told my H years ago that I was deeply in love with V and would always be. V wasn't available until recently to be in a relationship with me, but we are working through something very similar.

I haven't got my husband to get online here yet...but we have been making progress... He has decided that he really want to try to have what me and V have. He is trying to talk to a girl that seems to like him, but I don't know how that is going to go. Me and the Husband and V are all going to...

Again, thanks. I look forward to talking to both of you and anyone else who thinks they can help. I am going to pick up the Husband, A at work...I am going to suggest that he come here and see if he can gain anything from having people to talk to. I especially hope that mono could help him.

Thank you so much LR!! And please do expect some PMs.... I'm so glad to have found this place....I was so stressed, that eating and sleeping were becoming non existent activities.... I already feel as if a weight has been lifted.

Mono, thank you for your interest in my story...it feels good to be able to talk about my experiences and ask for advice....

Well. I was a serious serial monogamer... I would be completely happy in a mono relationship then end up meeting someone new usually strictly as friends. Then I would develop romantic feelings for this new person and while I was still completely in love with my current partner. I would start to...

Oh. I in no way want to give the impression that any poly relationship is going to be a walk in the park.. New guy isn't really a new guy at all. V is my best friend. The one who helped me realize that I was poly. We are going on 6 years of being in love with each other but circumstances and bad...

As many of you probably understand. Sometimes, you end up in a mono marriage before you finally figure out that you are poly. I have come clean to my husband and have been completely honest about my intentions and expectations. I gave him the option to leave w/o any fear of me trying to take...

I'm new to practicing poly, but not new to being poly. I figured out many many years ago that I was poly. It is a long story on how I got there, but basically, after many many years of serial monogamy and cheating and affairs and breaking up....I figured out that it was me that was broken, it...