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congratulations on "coming out" and welcome!

Well, best of luck... my two cents is it seems like when you are NOT looking is when you find what you weren't even looking for. If you want to meet your third my advice would be to go ahead and entertain those "girls looking for attention", get involved and flirt w/ whomever is attractive to...

wow! What a great story. It seems to me a very natural thing and you three seem very mature in your friendship/relationship to be able to change the dynamics of your interactions now. So very very awesome and inspiring! I wish you three the best of luck and it sounds like you are already...

:) welcome.. just got here myself. Is that a final fantasy gif?

This is all really scary. I mean, worst case scenario, what if he is just using "poly" as a way of trying out a relationship with this woman and if it doesn't work out he still has you? And if it does work out and she bears this child or children he is so desperate for then what if he just...

IMO, I see being intimate (whether it is kissing, intimate conversations or sex) as things that progress along a continuum. And it is very difficult to stop at one specific point, as in, "Okay, dear. I'm going out with Angela tonight. I will share intimate moments with her, and hold hands, but...

Difficult spot, mate. I have been there and it is very tough. By describing your wife as "very monogamous" I guess you mean that she is very against you being anything other than strictly monogamous, and not just her own choices (as in the case of member MonoVCPHG whom I gather is personally...

yeah, definitely feel you on that one. I think the world just hasn't realized how polyamorus it is :P or could be...

I don't know what a "V" is exactly , but reading your post reminds me of one of the biggest fears I have in poly relationships.. that someone will be left 'out in the cold'. Not necessarily me, because for some reason I don't mind being alone for a short or long while, but I worry that someone...

Congratulations on love! It makes me feel nice and warm to hear how you are feeling and idk really know your situation other than the little bit you have here but it sounds like there is some mutual love and respect going on. I know it's scary too, damn love is so crazy because you open up and...

moving my story to the "stories" section :)

This only being my second post but some of the more active members know a little bit about me already from my former g/f, Nyx (I am reffered to as "Nick"). Her postings/conversations have come up a few times in our irl convos every so often, the bit that was repeated more than once was that (to...

uh, I wrote this insanely long story last night from midnight to half past one about how I came to "poly" (If that's indeed what I am) but then didn't post it. Too long winded and scattered. I have been "out" for about 8 years now and still don't really know much. Last year I was in a...

Okay, my perception from reading this thread is that your husband likes/loves you and wants to continue a relationship with you, but he also has some nagging thing in the back of his head that he wants kids and that he's not going to be able to have them with you. Maybe that's his only reason...