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The worst part of this is her therapist actually suggested it...

Mostly, she also still has stuff down here and I guess I never really got insistent on pushing her out the door. It is her dog... technically I'm kind of the dog-sitter. So I try to let her be with her dog for comfort. Yeah, not answering her calls results in a fight of course. I had told...

This from the same guy who just said " She will hunt you down, she will stalk you,"

You were the only one I remember frequently expressing annoyance... Semi-joking, with a touch of expecting you to be annoyed again. Guess I was right! :cool:

Ok, first off... apologies to BoringGuy for resurrecting this thread. I just need to rant a little... So after yet another breakup, we slowly grew back into talking, back into hanging out, back into cuddling... then got into a big fight last week. The short version is, at some point she...

Saturday night I went out, that's all. Was less about seeking solace than about trying to be out there...

Humor. I was being a bit tongue-in-cheek. Yes, but it's a double-edged sword as well because it seems much simpler when you're giving the advice and don't really know all the details of a situation. Keep in mind I'm not saying you, or anyone else here, is wrong about the advice... I'm mostly...

So you've been in the situation(s) multiple times, but can't understand what is happening with me? :P

I wasn't buying it because we were together, I'm buying it partly as a favor to her... but mostly because I can rent out one apartment for a profit. Yes, there are other houses but I'm not going to betray her that much. Also, the mortgage application is already in... basically just waiting for...

I'm in the process of buying the house she owned before we started living together. So it's not exactly simple for me to just move out for a couple months, and she can't afford to move until she gets the money from the house sale. BoringGuy Let's see, we live in a duplex and she "lives" in...

It's a bit harder when you live together, and harder still when she doesn't have anywhere to go yet. Being around someone constantly and trying not to let a single affectionate gesture get through is a little tough... Also, I actually did tell her I'd be just friends... a week and a half...

As I said "Apparently she had dates lined up, and was starting to look for a new relationship." Nitpicking a bit, aren't you? :) Or cherry picking, since you only seemed to pick up the "one night stand" part? I have, and I understand the distinction... I was just dealing with something...

Hmm... just verified and still getting the captcha? Or will it be five messages _after_ confirming my email?

Got it, thanks! Now your job is really done... ;)

Don't think it's IP address, I'm getting the issue from multiple IPs... I'll pm him when I get a chance, thanks!

Well, I told you want I wanted in the beginning... and interpretation of her behavior. Now I'm just replying to questions/statements. If it helps, your job is done here. :)

No. I want an open relationship for other reasons, and that became known two years ago. That's just it. Every time I try to break up, I get hit with a bunch of guilt trips ranging from "you promised we'd be friends" to "you're the only support I have." The fighting, guilt trips and other...

odd... like what though? I don't even have a signature... maybe it's because my profile isn't filled out?

tuauts ezra That does sound like a good way to go... almost wish you'd posted sooner!

Well, this is closer to my motivation... it's important to me, and ending my relationship with someone important to me.