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I like this.^^^^ Never been a touchy person myself, except in a relationship, then I'm very touchy. I lose sleep because I try to fall asleep cuddling but the cuddling feels so good that it keeps me awake. This kind of thing makes me wonder if I need to incorporate more touch into my...

Massages are always good. And any shared experience helps people bond, but more intense experiences are always better. You could set out to conquer a fear together, achieve a goal together, bungee jump, volunteer, whatever stirs up good emotions in both of you.

Just a thought, as the biggest complaint seems to be lack of time, there is another poly... Polyphasic sleeping. I experimented with it during university and it actually works really well, if you are strict about sticking to the schedule. What you do is take 20-30 minute naps every four hours...

First off, glad you aren't viewing it as a failure. Good job. Second, yes, keep the friendship going, but also be sure to pursue other women. It's not just about looking desirable to her, although having other women around you would have that effect, it's also about, like you said, "getting...

I believe they call that "heteroflexible." No, I'm not a big fan of labels but when they're that witty I make an exception. :D

Love this. I second the posts by Maca and II.

LOL Typical Sa-scratch-my-bum. Make sure you count 'em twice ;)

Labels labels and more labels... who cares what's a quad and what's not a quad? If there's four people and there's lovin' and there's a major social bond between all four, I'd say that's a quad. Of course my ideal quad would be me, Keira Knightley, Angelina Jolie and Isla Fisher.

Mine is one I've used in online dating profiles. I wanted something with good contrasting elements to it. I used variations of "Adventurous Spirit" for a while. Now I have ClassyCaveman and one other similar one that I use but I don't want it to get stolen so I'm not willing to share it here...

This must be why you and Redpepper get along so well. She's so poly, she wanna cracker!!

Yeah that seems like the way to go, if it's what you want. Either that or become a tomato farmer.

Mono, I just read this entire thing. You're hilarious.

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The phrase "Everything happens for a reason." Restaurants that claim they'll make you two eggs any style, but when you ask for scrambled, you get fried eggs chopped up into little bits and cooked until there's no moisture left. Good porn that doesn't end with a facial. So disappointing.

This explains sooo much... :eek: kidding! kidding, I promise! :p That actually really does suck. I can't imagine. Ugh. You gals all talking about your diva cups and tomatoes and stuff are giving me a little bit of period envy. Not enough though. Love being a guy. Peeing standing up rocks.

:confused: Uh-oh! Well, treasure it now, while you can, for sure. I hope it survives these first little speedbumps. Good luck!

Yeah, I'll probably be dealing with this stuff too someday. I'm slowly structuring my life so that I eventually won't have to interact with my parents anymore, because when the time comes that they want to know the real me, there's going to be a lot of frustration on their side, and I don't...

Ok, well yes, sorry, I was trying to relate your situation to my experience, but the fact remains that fun is fun, but investing time and effort in something like "romance and intimacy. Sleepovers, cuddles, silly poems, mutual emotional support, companionship" and then finding out it can only...

Eventually I hope to be in a situation where this is a problem for me. I come from a strict Christian background. Divorcing my wife was a big deal, and I recently came out as an atheist to my immediate family. (Extended is another story. I don't see them much so don't see the need to tell...

Yeah, it sucks. I was in N's position at one point, and I just decided that I was going to be poly and if S (mine was an "S" too!) wanted to be with me, that was great, if not, that was unfortunate but I understood. She started dating around and now is with a great guy who wants to be mono...