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OK but she may not be willing to lose you again. Depends on how freely she loves. I have exes I would love to spend a few hot steamy nights with again, but the idea of building up a relationship only to have them say "I want you to myself, dump the rest" doesn't appeal to me. So that may be...

How do they 'clarify' that monogamy is not some childish justification for jealousy? And since when is there anything wrong with being promiscuous? Yes, I realize a lot of people frown on it, but in my opinion, that's their problem. Whether I choose to be promiscuous (in a safe way) is none...

I can't see how that works. Apply that to a woman in an abusive relationship who is in love with her abuser. I probably have a different take on the whole concept of people "deserving" anything, though. I don't believe we are born with any rights as people. We are only born with rights as...

DUMP HIM. For all the reasons pointed out by the previous posters. I know you love him but you're only hurting yourself by staying. Get out, and value yourself. Your feelings and wants are important. I think you know this in your head but you don't seem to act on it. It's possible I'm...

I'm on there, same name... although I'm considering changing it to Sophisticaveman.

Yup. I haven't met many poly people in my area except for a few in meetups, and there's only one that I would consider getting into a relationship with (have a date with her Wednesday!) so I just date monos casually (and honestly!) and if I happen to hit it off with any of them and they want to...

Like a rodeo clown in Pamplona during running of the bulls? Like a hemophiliac in a mosh pit? Like Iron Man in a magnet factory? It sounds like he responds to being controlled. Learn her tricks and use them on him. It's for his own good. And everyone else's. Except hers. Dump some GHB in...

Do The Dew!!! LOL!!! http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/fooddrink/a/mountain_dew.htm :D:D:D

I don't have much experience with polyamory yet, so I can't offer much practical advice, but don't let yourself get too beaten up, bud. You're not a villian. We're all selfish. Your feelings are valid, and in my not-so-humble opinion, morality is up to you to define for yourself. I hope your...

That 'chip in everyone' stuff scares the hell out of me, but it's probably inevitable. Eventually everyone will have one, and we'll use it for everything. Security clearances, buying and selling, communicating... ...and whoever's in power will have the ability to turn it off.

Pardon my smugness... Well, as a relatively new member here I don't have a whole lot invested in this forum, and after reading this thread, (and Joreth's link) I know not to take anything or anyone here too seriously. It's amazing how much your opinion of people can change between reading...

Are you being serious or incredibly witty? I want to know if I should feel bad for bursting out laughing.

I was spanked as a kid, teased a lot in middle school and bullied once or twice in high school, pretty standard fare for a lot of us. Oh yeah, and someone took a knife to my genitals once and cut off the best part... I suppose you could consider that abuse. I do. But I don't see how that...

Just read a really great one in someone's OKC profile: "We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions."

I've been finding a lot of scenes at work that I've thought would make interesting pictures. (I work at a lot of construction sites) Things like a sawhorse that's been scarred by a circular saw over and over...

These two have had a centering effect on me at certain times in my life: "Invest in yourself. Material things come to those who have self-actualized." -- from a post on Craigslist. "When I breathe my last breath, I will not die, it is the world that will end." -- unknown philosopher that...

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He certainly has his work cut out for him. It's good to know your boyfriend is looking out for you here, as well. I'd love to give you a big hug for support right now. Keep us posted!

A couple thoughts on the subject before I hit the sack... The best way to build friendship is through shared experiences. Conversation, work, adventure, are all things that promote bonding. and It is impossible to hate someone and laugh with them. Good thing to remember next time you're on...

Ohh... Dakid, Einstein cautions you: "Things should be made as simple as possible-- but no simpler." Over-simplification can lead to terrible misunderstandings of complicated concepts, and even worse, pseudoscience. Just sayin'.