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Poly does amazing things to the English language.

By your own admission, you didn't investigate what went wrong. You just reiterated why your way was right. If anything, you told him why he did what he did, and why he needed to do things your way.

My thought process is that there's an issue with that fact that it took you a good three times to reach the point where you were willing to renegotiate, and you're not seeing it. Poly isn't the place to be inflexible. You'll wind up pissed off every time. What he did is completely wrong. I...

I would also like the point out that him disrespecting the agreement IS an issue.

It doesn't matter that you all came up with this agreement together. It really doesn't. The reason most have continually harped on the agreement itself and not the fact that he's not respecting it is because something isn't working with the agreement. How many times does he have to...

I can't wait until some of the others get ahold of this. Wow, your boyfriend is being a prick. There's struggling with change and there's being rude. He's being rude.

Your relationship could blossom and she could feel about her man and you equally. The sky's the limit, really.

In regards to the third response I try not to reach out for people who aren't also looking for friends. Like if there's two redheads who are into video games and one of them is looking for just a LTR and the other one is open to friends, FWB, LTR or whatever; I'm going with the second one...

*clears throat* Hi Bacon, I like you. You seem like a really nice person and your screen name warms a very special corner of my fatty fat heart. Because of this I want you to listen to me carefully. I will preface my words with the acknowledgement that sometimes the heart wants what it wants...

She supported you through a childhood trauma. Ok fine. That's what a good friend does. How long do you have to keep paying her back for that. That act of friendship being a reason why her behavior is ok taints it and makes it into something ugly. Being a good friend once doesn't give her the...

I came back to read this since you mentioned this in your other thread. It seems like your thoughts and wants weren't respected from the beginning and that Jesse wasn't completely honest with you OR Blossom. And that really sucks. I'm sorry that something like CondomGate had to happen before you...

Some day there is going to be a guy who understands that control isn't about taking away a person's choice, but about loving someone enough to put them on a path that brings them immense pleasure and joy. He's going to respect the gift of your submission and treat you with such reverence. Kick...

I'm so sorry he broke your trust. That's not what D/s is about at all. :(

No it's been in online settings. I just...ugh I'm so awkward. Meeting people is stressful for me.

I just...it's so silly but...I want my first baby to be my husband's. I know you can take birth control and you should use condoms anyway but bc fails and condoms break and if I found myself having a child for the first time and it wasn't my husband's....I'd be heartbroken. I've been trying to...

Yep. And I'm hit with the "That sounds like a lot of drama", "I said no men and no couples and no watching" and "Well I hope you find what you're looking for but I need someone 100% focused on me". With the third response I'll keep talking to try to go the friend route because what's wrong with...

I'm a woman married to a man. And I love him and it's great. But I also enjoy women and would love a relationship with one. Fine no big deal everyone here gets it. Please tell me why every woman either wants to try to snag my husband for herself, is convinced I'm lying to my husband and am...

You're getting ready to be married to each other so I don't think it's unreasonable to see yourself as his primary. As a primary it's nice (dare I say it respectful even) to not have your partner surprise you with new loves.

SO much better with the words than I was. This. All of this.

Maybe. I dunno. I'd invite everybody, but they wouldn't have to sit and talk and be all involved with each other. More like, "Hey, this is A, and we've been seeing each other for a while," and then, "B, this is A, same thing goes," and then just keeping it moving. *shrug* Now that I'm married...