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Polyamory is about honesty, right? So if you're honest with each other, and you know that at some point the other person might be dating someone else, how is that not polyamory? Why does it have to go beyond that? I wouldn't feel the need to introduce someone to my DH if we weren't married. I'd...

Berries and cherries.

Nothing good will come from continuing to have contact with him. You're pregnant. It's not about you anymore, it's about the safety of your child. This guy is the kind of guy who could have you tied up in the trunk of your car if you're not careful. Please stop talking to him or asking about...

I agree with AnnabelMore. It's nice to check in and make sure everyone is comfortable with where things are going.

I'm a Gemini and hubs is a Libra. I was born in the year of the Snake and he is a Bull I believe? Two air signs together is interesting.

Dream the dream. The sky is really the limit.

Babies!! I love babies! Welcome!

It's refreshing and inspiring and just...it makes me happy to see a wife who loved her husband so much that she loves him as a person not as a man. Restores a bit of my faith in humanity.

I just want to hug you. It really seems like she's a bit of a trainwreck and she's manipulating HARD. It's good that you're willing to be open and figure out where to go from here rationally and it's good that the Master she had was honest with her. D/s isn't for everybody, but for those who it...

Cut the line and let her go. Here's my thing: The continuing to go out with a friend who drinks and drives, and then letting that friend drive, would have been the kicker for me even before the whole dude on the side crap. I love you and you're going to disrespect that by intentionally putting...

Just randomly throwing this out there: My husband and I argued incessantly when we first moved in together. However we also have OCD in varying degrees on both sides, anxiety (one strictly social and one general) and depression in varying degrees on both sides; sometimes situational. And ALL of...

Well if you're not into it then no it's not gonna help. I think like others have said she might be worried you'll want more than you can give. I also agree with every counselor not being for every person.

OldGuy raised an excellent point. I'm black and it baffles me when other black people marginalize gays. Were we not fighting the same fight roughly 40-50 years ago? My marriage would have been illegal less than a half a century ago. How can I NOT identify with their struggle? Getting off...

Hugs. Lots and lots of hugs.

Libra is an Air sign ;) You're in need of some dirt! Birthdays are so much fun! Was there cake?

I feel like you're vulnerable because you're stuck in a situation where you're SO close to someone you used to love but the love isn't there. Give yourself time to heal and transition.

You could date my husband but before you two became more than something casual I'd need to at least know you. Not be best buds but at least be good and friendly. It's not something that's right for everyone, but in our setup....my husband is a GIANT homebody. If he had a secondary they'd...

I think for a lot of couples starting out and just being naturally wary of where things are going it might be best for THEM even if it's confusing for us.

Very solid point. A big reason of why my husband and I have taken so long to get to the poly point is because I can say apple and he won't hear apple or even orange. The man hears AIRPLANE. It's ridic and exhausting.

I don't really know anyone, but from the wife's viewpoint it could be a case of leaving the door open for all the partners to be sexually involved. That can't happen when one of the partners feels like a sister. Then again, it could just be trivial jealousy.