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I am in a DADT with husband who no longer wants sex. I have been upfront about having 2 mates from the beginning, but had not followed through with sex with both mates. One man would only have sex with me once every 2 months, so I sought someone else who would fill in those gaps. All was great...

Thanks, Tonberry I should be fine in the long run. I am not right now. He said he doesn't want to see me today. He said, "You want to shag me so close to shagging him?" I feel rejected. I do have a slight glimmer of hope. I tend to spend well over an hour with fellatio alone, then riding...

Thanks for the encouragement, GalaGirl. I am very appreciative. ((hug))

Still unclear He was very nice. Kind of silent at times. Then he would perk up and joke around. He said "You can't help it, you are just a horny little girl," and then started laughing. I thought, "Huh?" I thanked him for being kind and making a joke out of it. I said, "So, does this mean I am...

This is what I was having a challenge with. I did not want to tell him this. Anything else but the insanity of the heat of the moment. I was told to make sure I left those details out of the conversation: He asked, "Do you want me inside?" All I could think was, "Please, oh god yessss, please...

Here is my letter to MM My Dearest MM, I did have sex with Dr Feel Good. I am really ashamed to inform you that I lost my head and did not use a condom. I am horrified, and can't believe after being so responsible I screwed up that bad, and now I have to get retested for STDs. He was...

Part of my problem was also that we usually do fellatio on the first and second rounds, and intercourse third round. We switched from fellatio on the second round, to him lying on top of me, and saying, "Do you want it inside you?" then immediate penetration. :( I know, goober behavior. But that...

Misquote in bold but I see what you mean. Thanks for your help, GalaGirl. Just a slight misquote which really makes a huge difference. I will be confessing, for sure. MM will know there was no condom. I was just reluctant to tell him how reckless I was. Oh, believe me, we learned a rough lesson.

Please don't misquote Quote: Should I tell my partners so they can decide if they want to get themselves tested? This is not my quote^^^^^ See my quote above in bold, please. It is a given I am telling MM. (The other knows. He is the one who contributed.) I was just trying to find a gentle way...

Have not lost sight of telling him what I have done. Telling him is a given, posting what I have done on this site is part of my personal smack down. None of you can kick my butt as well as I already have, but I did expect to be met with people who would chastise me for my actions. He or I...

doing great, and you? Little roller coaster ride but I will let go of the bar and raise arms high. :D

Soooo, apparently I went out in the desert, came back with a few arrows in my ass, so you can learn from my mistake. I am upset with myself because I didn't put the condom on the bedside table. I saw his cock and remember thinking, I don't want my saliva cleaned off. I don't want the oil...

Hi Kdt, Just puttin' some luv on ur wall. :D

Are ya staying warm and well? Just checking in on ya and thought I would show some love on ur wall. :D

Thanks for the help Dust :D

Hi Fish Hope all is well. :) Any news for us? :D

He kept asking me, when I would ask for sex, "Well, how often do you want sex?" I would get excited and think, "Wow, I am gonna get sex." I would say, "Once a week would be grand!!" It would never come. And I'd say nothing. Then next quarter he would say, "Well, how often do you want it?" I...

Reassurance and loving acts I need to read this from time to time and understand that my H also needs reassurance, acceptance and empathy for what he is going through. Sometimes it is hard when he raises his voice. I am not used to that. But I understand that his life feels out of control, so...

how is H? Hey Girl, Dust and Fish are neat. Dust is right reach out to him he is one step ahead of us. :D How is H holding out? you be good to you!!

Progress Aww, a night away. Oh boy, that must have been hard on ya. I hope she came back in a loving mood and reassured you. I remember thinking my husband was stepping out of the relationship for sex, and how insecure and alone I felt. I remember being left behind on ski trips. Just not fun...