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    An update on my mono/poly situation and some questions.

    Thank you for responding. Of course, none of it is what I want to hear, but life isn't about what I want to hear. I mean the fight in which he told me about the girl he had been sexual with and waited two months to tell me. I feel like my reaction was the right one but I wanted to make sure if...
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    An update on my mono/poly situation and some questions.

    Second part. Again, sorry it's soooo long! I don't want to give up on us because what we have has always been fantastic despite the rough patches that are inevitable since no relationship is ever perfect. I believe in working on problems if the love still exists and so far I still feel it from...
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    An update on my mono/poly situation and some questions.

    Hello, everyone. I'm going to apologize in advance for a LONG and possibly exhausting story. There is so much going on that I feel like I need to give background on everyone's involvement. (It also looks like I'll have to divide it into two posts because I've gone far over the character limit.)...
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    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now

    Thanks! I'm trying. I've never had a connection like this with another person and I have to understand that he's different from me in this aspect. I don't see it as a reason to give up such a good thing. As long as he doesn't expect me to do it alone and we continue to nurture each other's...
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    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now

    Before I met him, I had the same mindset. The old me would have left already! He's increased my capacity for tolerance and patience just by being an incredibly tolerant and patient person himself. Does this mean I'm going to be a doormat every time there's a bump or a new partner who he gives a...
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    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now

    GalaGirl I gave myself time to think everything over after replying to Marcus and I came to the same conclusion. It's emotional storm. I'm adjusting to accepting a lifestyle I've never come in contact with before and with all of the little things that normally wouldn't bother me, it triggered a...
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    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now

    I know he has some other stress (work, some day to day life things that have nothing to do with his relationships) that he's going through. Part of me wants to say it's that and I'm making much ado about nothing but another part of me is wondering if it's fair to use that as an excuse. It...
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    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now

    (I posted this in "life stories and blogs". Meant to post it here. ::facepalm!:: ) Hi, all. I'm a mono involved in an LDR with a beautiful poly (he's had the feelings but this is the first time he's decided to fully embrace the lifestyle). He came out to me a few months into our relationship...
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    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Still feeling NRE, he has it with someone else now Hi, all. I'm a mono involved in an LDR with a beautiful poly (he's had the feelings but this is the first time he's decided to fully embrace the lifestyle). He came out to me a few months into our relationship and there is someone else who he...
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