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It's so funny I thought it had been at least a week since my last post, but apparently it's only been five days. This was such a packed weekend. Pride events started on the Thursday and just kept going until Monday night and it was great. I've never actually gotten to enjoy Pride in this city...

The musical was great. I'm so glad I got to see it. I don't tend to do stuff like that on my own very often. My seat wasn't great in that I couldn't see about 1/3 of the stage, but it was really well blocked so I didn't miss much. It's funny, afterwards I found out that was the theatre my dad...

I'm so sorry to hear about that. Fwiw I found out I'm allergic to all the available treatments for chlamydia so my partner and I had to do a ton of research around transmission rates etc. If information helps your anxiety and you would like those resources at any point feel free to DM me.

I'm having a difficult mental health day. I've been sick for almost two weeks with a slight intermission on Friday and Saturday. Luckily it's just a cold (and then a mild sinus infection), but two weeks without really having the energy to do things like clean or go out or work on some client...

Long Post with Backstory Yesterday Grey and I finally sat down and talked about Fiona. For some back story they had dated casually for just over a year in 2016 and then she broke things off without much explanation. Grey wasn't super upset because it had really only been a casual thing. In...

Tonight Grey and I went to the birthday party that a newish friend was having. It was neat because she lives in the same neighborhood as me and I'm so used to having to travel far into the city to do anything that this was a welcome change. We were supposed to talk more about Fiona and...

So I'm going to start off by saying I don't know how long I'm going to keep this blog, but my therapist suggested I try journalling and traditionally I've been terrible at maintaining any kind of written record, but hey try anything twice right? My intent is for this to be a lot more stream of...

My nesting partner and I are separating. There are a lot of reasons around why but they mostly have to do with how he has been treating me as a result of being depressed for a long time. I chose to end the relationship but it's been an absolutely brutal process and I have been struggling. Last...

Okay so a couple new things happened and I feel that there needs to be a conversation sooner rather than later. This weekend my partner and his gf went to a cottage out of town. Before he left we had discussed wanting to spend more time together and he told me that of course his time with this...

Thank you, me too. Thank you for the advice, it was helpful to hear other opinions.

I should clarify, we aren't friends on Facebook and I have no intention of allowing her access to my profile/online presence for the time being/possibly ever. We do, however, have a bunch of mutual friends because I met this guy through our shared social group. One of his best friends is one of...

I'm not entirely sure either. For me it's entirely on a case by case basis, one of my best friends started out as a metamour and it took three years before I met another one. Generally I prefer to feel secure in my relationship before getting involved in any other aspect of a person's life. I...

I've recently started seeing someone new (like in the last six weeks recently) I really enjoy spending time with him and I can see this turning into more of a relationship than a casual fling. My issue is that his other partner drives me up the wall. She isn't a bad person and they're quite...

Ah, okay so he was going to book the hotel using a deal saving app, and most hotels are driving distance from their place. By the time he got around to booking it it was very late. I'm a fairly type A personality so normally I book everything in advance and he's much more organic so sometimes...

No, this just isn't reasonable and while I'm happy to have a longer discussion about why, I need you to respect me when I say that hotels are not a viable option. Haha yes I did absolutely mean home, I am trying to do this on a smartphone and the forum really doesn't like reformatting itself...

I agree, it is ridiculous. I said that was a hard limit for me, which was when my partner offered to come back a day early from their trip so it was more that hanging out with my other metamour was what happened that night. Up until she stopped what we were doing I was enjoying getting to spend...

We are both artists so a hotel is out of the realm of affordability, otherwise I would agree. When we initially started seeing each other he explained that his house was a sex positive place where sex with other partners was a regular occurrence and everyone confirmed this. I have a suspicion...

Hoping for some advice on the best way to have a conversation with a partner about how the behaviour of a metamour is affecting me. I'm in a relationship that has become long distance in the last year. This person lives with two girlfriends. One of them is a close friend, the other one I am on...

Awhile ago I posted about my partner coming back from a date covered in marks, which we had mutually agreed on as a boundary. We've resolved that issue in the sense that everyone has had a conversation, apologies were made, and it's hopefully an honest mistake. However, pretty much from the...

A little while ago I posted a thread asking for advice about my partner not respecting my request that he be finished with his partner and have our house clean when I came home at 7:00. He and I have talked about it and he will now only be having partners over when I go out of town for a few...