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Research I also agree that researching and reading will give you more of the information you need to make an informed decision. When my hubby and I first started this we actually read the "Ethical Slut" outloud together and would have nice discussions after each chapter checking in on how each...

Thanks for your reply. I know it's his issue, but when she continues to say things like, "The relationship is going nowhere," it burns me up! He just needs to squash this. I do hope in the future we can openly talk about our relationship with L.

Coming out to friends and problems Hi all. I've been married 15 years and have a secondary, J, who is monogamous and who I've been with for 6 months. Things have been great with J. He makes me so happy and we have been able to build a wonderful relationship. I have only come out to a couple...

Its over After much thought and soul searching I did finally end it. I wanted to end it properly on the phone but it got ridiculous as we couldn't find a convenient time to talk so I decided to email him my feelings yesterday afternoon and just let him know everything. So its over now. I'm...

Ok, I had posted previously to get input on how often to communicate with a secondary or "other significant relationship." We did have a good discussion and set some things that I felt good about. I really have overcome my insecurities and felt more confident in our relationship until now. He...

Its Ok I feel fortunate in that my husband really LOVES to watch me be affectionate with other guys. When I'm with both of them, at first it was strange but then I relaxed because my hubby just smiles as I kiss and am physical with my secondary. He wants me happy and is turned on when other...

Working thru it! I am really happy to hear so many responses, it means a lot and gives me a lot to think about. I was so upset Friday I could barely function (other things are stressing me out too and I was just overwhelmed). We finally talked Friday night for over an hour and got things on...

thanks! Thanks all for your responses! I really appreciate everyone's input. It has come down to an argument between us today about this issue so now I have to really clarify with him. He did indicate in his email that he is not someone who wants to keep in touch daily, he is still getting...

Greetings all! I'm new here and been poly for about two years. I've learned it takes a while to really learn the best way to balance having two relationships and you really need to be flexible. My question is I've started seeing someone about a month ago. We have a long history, we were...