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Thanks Jane! Your comments make sense and I want it to be that simple. Communication can be built, plans can be made, adult men can make their own decisions. I know I can write out our story that way and it sounds ok. I had them read it and neither said "What are you talking about? that isn't...

Why do I feel like a fraud? The more I’ve read here the more I feel like I’ve been reading it as fantasy and I can’t post because I feel like a fraud. Like we don’t really count. Jasper tells me I'm not a fraud I'm just a novice. I didn't understand that at first. For one thing I've been in two...

Oof! That wait for new thread approval is tough. Feel like chickening out today

Ok got past first post fear, got past hang up over picking a title. Here goes, lets hope I'm not about to ruin my life again.… I posted a thread in introductions but for completeness I feel the need to include that info here. I've been reading the forum for months now but have been reluctant...

Love this thread. I thought I was the only idiot who yelled at people in movies to just be together. My personal favorite is Holiday Inn. Every year at Christmas there I am yelling at the TV. "You can make movies in Hollywood between the holidays and they can both keep dancing at the Inn...

FullofLove, I can't help but worry that Si is at home right now, thinking her two partners are having a nice vacation, and she can't wait for you to come home so she can spend time with you both and the children, who she probably also has feelings for, since she's been in their lives since...

Hi all, I've been reading the forum for months and months now but have been reluctant to start posting due to a feeling like I'm not real poly enough. I've gained so much from reading the stories and posts here. I was pleasantly surprised to see the wide range of definitions of polyamory being...

Needs are a very individual thing There are some people who may not be looking for more than that Often maybe but not always. Should he assume everyone in the single category has the exact same needs and close himself to all of them? Or does he have the right to expect people to open...