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I wish there was a magical cure for assuming things, for now trial and error will have to be my teacher.:)

Not long We haven't been together for very long. Vin and I have been together for almost 10 years, married for 9, and have known each other for 20. K and I have known each other for almost a year, but more or less came out to one another sometime in January, so this triad is a very recent...

Hell, I don't know how to categorize it. I said something that upset our lover about her not telling a potential lover about me and my spouse. she called it out, I tried to take it as constructive criticism, thought she had been acting a little defensive, and just let it eat my lunch all day. Do...

Thanks for the feedback! Thanks everyone. I really need to just let things be what they are instead of constantly trying to fix them. Bad habit. Fixer-fixer, tsk tsk. I tried to have someone to come over and spend the evening with me and the kids, but it didn't work. I ended up falling asleep...

I'm sure there are others, but is there a jealousy thread that is super awesome? Sigh. Does it ever go away? I'm much better about the other two having a night to themselves, but I still feel a little bile rise to the back of my throat. I HATE feeling this way. I had a nightmare where I yelled...

Another UU-er here. Yes, it is pretty cool isn't it? I haven't met anyone from those groups yet, because I'm fairly closeted-(out of respect for my partners and our kids). I'm looking into seminary as well, but not for a while.

Hi. My name is Sugarbooger. My spouse and I are involved with another person, someone who had been my friend for a while. After coming out to her and myself, I've realized that this dynamic fits me, is me. I feel like this all makes sense. Part of me is happy I've finally realized it, but...