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We are intent on it, because it's what we both ultimately want together. It has happened for some people, so I'm not giving up hope yet, neither is he. I was sharing some of the replies with him last night including yours and we wound up talking about how not easy this is to find someone to date...

Defintiely nothing wrong with casual relationships so soon after a breakup, been there myself and most of us have if not all of us. When she asked the bare back question, I think my jaw dropped. Not literally, but I know my eyes got big and he raised and eyebrow. I took a sip of my drink and...

Her dishonesty was something we were turned off by; honesty is very important to us. it was one of many things we were turned off by. I almost felt she was leading us on TBH. as far as dealing with the STD testing for only fluid bonding relationships.. i do not agree if that's what she's...

I say promiscuous, because she did mention that she doesn't always practice safe sex with one of the couples she is seeing. She has been seeing them since pretty much right after the breakup, because he has a vasectomy. The whole thing came up after we brought up the idea of maybe taking it to...

Him and I met through a mutual friend and we were inseparable from the first day we met. We totally appreciate one another, but we've known for a long time that we really want to add to our relationship with another woman. At one point we toyed around with the idea of other configurations but...

thanks for the list suggestion! We'll sit down tonight and work on it :) The poly-fi broads definitely aren't falling off the tree here.. In fact those trees are bare here if you ask me. I don't think we were intentionally trying to sound desperate; more just wanting to get it out there on...

I've only had 2 serious relationships.. 1 was my ex whom I married and divorced years later.. and then J who I have been with for 6 years. Both relationships did move incredibly fast, so I think that I just don't know how to date slow *sigh* When I was single between my ex and J, for about a...

Sorry if this is a bit long.. Almost 2 months ago we met someone who we thought would be a good match for us. It seemed we had similar goals, we had a couple of dates and thought things were going well. Between our dates, we talked and texted each other a lot. None of us had ever been in a...

All of you seem to understand one another very well and "get" one another separately and together. I think that among other things is what makes it work so well for all of you. I've always said that we should never regret mistakes we make as we learn valuable lessons that enable us to grow...

I don't really have much advice, since J and I are just starting our first real poly relationship..a triad and have no experience in a quad.. But I wish you all the best of luck in working it out, if Stew really does want this. Sounds like he is just having a lot of jealousy issues that he needs...

I wasn't here very long before things got crazy in life, but here I am again! I got laid off in May.. We moved shortly after that to a guest house to save money and now I'm finally going back to doing something I love and have a passion for. After our previous attempt to meet someone.. or for...

Welcome, Hopeful! I'm quite the geek as well and though I love gaming, I've never tried WoW because I know I would get hooked really fast. That game consumes people's lives from what I hear. Anyhow, congrats on getting to that happy place with hubby and best of luck with B!! Hopefully he is...

So sorry to hear this.. Unfortunately, Child Protective Services here in the US isn't any better. I have a good friend who is a great mother, who is dealing with something similar only she had her child taken away and is now fighting to get him back. Hopefully all works out anc Cherry won't be...

It's been a few days since I wrote, but I thought I'd give an update! J is still talking to the one he met on OKC. I've tried to not be too intrusive, as it was bugging him in the past about my incessant questioning, so I've just let him tell me about her on his own. From what I hear, she seems...

Hah! So, the girl I mentioned in my last post doesn't have the balls to write me back to decline my apology...instead, she goes straight to him and says that she couldn't believe I had the nerve to write her and she will never apologize to me for what she said in the past and she still feels all...

I cleaned and then spent the day curled up with my dog and Netflix while J was at work. Now we're sprawled out on the bed, him on the PS3 and me on the net and we reach over every so often for some cuddles. I love nights like these :D

I'm glad you say that him potentially hurting his wife is an issue to you and made the decisions you did in not going forward. The cheating thing would have been a big red flag to me from the get go. Cheating is NOT OK. If he can't be honest with her, what makes you think he will be honest with...

We won't stop looking, we'll definitely keep trying. We're going to continue to look for our third, but we're going to probably find it easier to find separate partners of our own first. I have a date lined up for next week with a girl I've been talking to online for over a month who is moving...

Ditto what you said in the bold, however it seemed like she definitely expected a full on threesome when she comes down here and on top of that and her seeing other people, I think to him it was just a huge turnoff. Her coming here for a sex fest and then going back to her other guys was not...

Congrats on the weight dropping! That's always a great feeling :) I'm really clueless with weights. What do you recommend for all over toning? Calves, butt, thights, hips, arms... everything. I'm doing good with the cardio. Either walking at a good pace for 45 mins to an hour or doing high...