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She never said that specifically, so I don't know for sure on it. Perhaps she does, but J seems like he wants to meet someone that isn't seeing multiple people. While I said I never expected her to put her life on hold, he didn't either. He just wanted someone that wasn't already involved with...

Thanks for your reply :) Things took a turn in the last day or so and it looks like it's not going to work out. To make a long story short, she has been seeing 2 men for a while and though we don't expect her to put her life on hold, after she made plans and reservations to come down for a...

I told him that we gotta get him some Nair, as I just read a thread on it here. He told me "No way! You're the one with the '80s porn muff! You first!" *blush* Truth be told, I get gnarly ingrown hairs with shaving, and Nair is too much for my lady parts, so I've gone au naturel. I guess him...

I've been lazy on the gym in the last few days, but I've been walking and taking the stairs and cleaning so I've stayed active. Today going to go for a nice long brisk walk and then hit the gym for weights on the way back. Thought about some intense cardio at the gym, but I hate running in...

I totally just came upon this thread. Awesome. :) Gotta share some of the tips with J. He doesn't shave bare, but trims it really close. I know he'd love to get it bare, and I wouldn't mind, but the thought of a razor blade that close to there doesn't make him smile. I always thought the creams...

Thanks all :D Things seem to be going well thus far. I think we might both be feeling a little nervous about meeting...and her as well, I'm sure. Nervous but exciting! Had our first phone convo last night which was pretty much just her and I talking, but things felt really natural and...

LOL!! Nice one :D

It more or less came up in conversation due to our distance. As we all get along great so early into it and we all seem to have the same goals, it just kind of came up, but not in a real serious way, just that we were all open to relocation if and when we all truly found what we were looking...

We've been talking to a woman for a few days together, and she has almost everything in common with us both together and separately, including what we ideally want in a poly relationship. Sooo, she is coming to visit us Memorial Day weekend! So excited to see what this holds for us. If all goes...

We might have met her! So, over the last few days, I've been talking to a woman on my own, but it seems like she's looking for exactly what we are both looking for together, so tonight him and her are going to talk and then all three of us. If all goes as well as her and I think it will with...

Hi there! yes, I really am a gamer :) Getting ready to go finish Beyond Good & Evil HD on the 360.

I think I may have said it in another thread, but I'm happy to say that he did NOT go through with meeting her and cut it off. I think he realized it wasn't a good idea and that she's not what he wanted. I just had horrible visions of what could and probably would happen. I understand the...

Thanks! I'm swimming in clouds of happiness right now just because I'm feeling so positive about this at the moment.

The last 2 days have been really nice. We got our communication squabble out of the way we've been doing our poly talk once a day, to check in and see how the other is feeling, if we've come across anyone worthwhile and other hypothetical things. Really just reaffirming what it is what we want...

We had the discussion about whats tolerable and whats excessive in communicating our needs and we've come to an agreement which is working good for both of us. We're talking poly stuff once a day after work and dinner is done unless it's something urgent that can't wait. So far so good :)

For me the hardest thing was sticking to saying I'm going to do it. It was 6 months between the last time I hit the gym and when I did earlier this week. Now I've gone 2 days and got in a nice walk outside and I'm making sure to take the stairs and not cheat by taking the elevator. You can do...

Yeah, I loathe the gym too. It is soooo damn boring to run in place for 30 mins. I prefer to get my exercise in by getting out in the open, which I did today and got in a nice walk around the harbor. So pretty, saw a sea lion playing, lots of pelicans diving for fish and starfish along the...

I'm totally guilty of that too. I now just back away and remove myself from the situation and come back when I'm in a calmer frame of mind. If he pushes my buttons and I push his back, it doesn't go well, so removing myself and coming back when he's cooled down to talk seems to work best.

I'm new to this too, Manda so I don't have really a lot of advice to give since I'm struggling myself with the same things. Redpepper said it perfectly in this post and really put it in perspective for someone who is new to this and feeling the things you and I are feeling. I know all about...

I figured I might as well start one of these and stop crowding up the other topics :D As of now, I guess I'm a bisexual mono with a straight poly boyfriend. I'm not interested in seeing anyone else outside of our relationship but since our unicorn hunt didn't go so well and boredom ensued, he...