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I screwed things up and we are over. :eek: Sam is flirting with her co-worker and Glenn is being more loving and caring more than ever before. Where was THIS love when I needed it. The engagement ring is off, I am watching the kids on the weekend, just no relationship anymore. I am miserable. I...

So, the poly relationship took a break back in June. I ended it and found that I loved them more than I hated the situation. The hiatus lasted one month and was re-kindled due to Sam and it started the same way it did last time, through a three-some. At first we called our relationship a gray...

Thank you for reading my posts, it means a lot to me. :3

he has not cheated, the issue is him dealing with Sam's past cheating, as mentioned previously They have yet to hit my limits, I did in fact set a limit and have in fact improved as mentioned previously but i'm just not content with him not being emotionally which was caused by Sam's...

So, we have recently celebrated our 6 month mark but our biggest issue which has been on-going is the infidelity, which ultimately affects me. Glenn was okay for a little, he had his morose moments and now everything has stopped. The fights, meaningful kisses and genuine hugs and "I love you's"...

Response to FatMouse This makes perfect sense to me. But it all depends on if he finds it fair. Whereas you feelings are important, his are too. I would suggest you communicate. That is the best advice I can offer. A triad is a group of three individuals who are all involved with each other...

To GalaGirl Thank you for the advice, that's been my major issue but I didn't really think of stepping away from the situation, I will start trying that. I will let you know how it works for me, so thank you again. Thank you for the mentioning of it being able to mourn my loss. Sometimes it...

So, my poly-triad has definetely made its efforts to improve. They have made more of an effort to include me in fmaily activities and be apart of the life as a partner rather than the girlfriend who will leave eventually. However, one of my biggest issues is about Sam's pregnancy, I do not...

The best advice that I can give you about this sort of polyfidelitous relationship is talk it out. Express your opinions, emotions and feelings about how you feel about your first or second mate possibly adding someone else into your current poly network of three. You need to discuss it, as well...

I'm glad they intrigue you? I don't know. That's kinda creepy. No offense. :) Anyways, yeah, you are right, I do post these at the peak of my anger, and yes, all I want is help. Some advice I like, some I don't. But I see what you mean by only I can decide what I want. And nice analogy, again...

I agree with this, definitely me :)

What I dislike, personally is when I am looking for help and being deceived. Saying one thing doing another, avoiding questions, and all-around waiting until the last minute to fess up when I have asked several times, you pretty much have to say it straight out. I'm relatively a straight-forward...

I just wanted to say that I appreciate you always giving me constructive criticism, advice and help, even if it seems I repeat a lot of the same stuff. I just appreciate the help and not being rude. Thank you, so much

It'd be much appreciated if.... I chose this website to seek help on something I am new at. Something I just got involved with. So maybe I don't know the rules of being poly-fi and I still have dramatic tendencies because I am still young and maybe I have a habit of writing a lot of the same...

I meant I don't need the criticism about my posts, I need criticism on my post. Maybe I post things for a reason. To get help, not to be told that me and my lover deserve each other because we are drama. I am asking for criticism on what I am doing wrong within my relationship, not what I am...

If we are all being honest here, you sound JUST like my boyfriend... Kinda creepy. Thanks for the advice all of you, at least those who are being nice. I don't need the criticism, I am looking for help. I appreciate that you gave me it. But seriously...... you sound like my boyfriend O.o

I have been told that I am playing the victim within my polyfidelitous relationship. I actually really want to fix that. When I lived at home with my parents, it was about my parents and what I could do for them, how I could make them happy. I was forced to lie and hide things that most teens...

So while I am looking to UNDERSTAND how to take care of what is “wrong” with the relationship, both Sam and Glenn have referred to me as “demanding attention” and “complaining.” They tell me that I am “difficult to handle” and that I am “complex.” Glenn says he is a simple mind and that I am not...

Annabel More much appreciated

GalaGirl: I have made it clear how I feel. I'm not entirely sure they understand. But yes, I do feel left out, and that needs to change. I have made that much clear. Then Glenn gives me the same old lecture of "We warned you it was going to be off for awhile. And it's going to be hard sometimes...