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Everything I would have said has been said already. Poly won't work unless your current relationship works, since it is all connected. Also, staying together for the kids, doesn't help the kids in most situations. I'm currently watching my parents go through a divorce that my siblings and I have...

If I can, I prefer to be open about being poly. I won't out my partners or rush them, and I totally understand why people choose not be be out, but it doesn't make me feel good. I told my family from the start, and then had to remind them several times when they "forgot". They're all pretty...

Yeah, those are great. Thank you :)

I wish they would do a poly storyline, but not with Bill. He is a classic abusive partner.

Thanks. Sorry, had a brain fart. I've searched google and not found much, but forgot to search the forum.

Curious about books or songs with poly themes Do any of you have a favorite book or song with a poly theme? I'm kind of starved for a good romantic storyline that doesn't just assume that there can only be one love. I'm actually writing a novel with a poly love story for national novel...

That's really interesting. Thank you for posting it. I see why they used to do it, and I appreciate the writer's neutrality. It makes sense that they want to abolish it now, but I can also see the sense in the tradition.

That has been my experience of it. There's so much support and love. It makes sense that with more people, potentially there are more complications, but I really feel like everything is easier to deal with as well.

That makes me so happy, to hear that there are other similar setups to ours. Some of our poly friends seem to think we're odd or unusual because we've got a quad that is working. I guess they're used to them falling apart early or something. I'm so glad its not necessarily true. :)

Oh, and the boys are just friends, but we girls are involved with each other. I've never dated a girl before, but it is very nice. Very different. She's wonderful. So are the boys :)

We don't live together but we live near each other. We have date nights in different combinations most weeks. My girflriend and I have a date while our boys have boy time together, then the next day I go out with our boyfriend and she goes out with my husband. We also spend a good chunk of the...

There isn't anything wrong with you at all. I also have a weird reaction I can't fully explain. I get irrationally irritable with my girlfriend if i'm not getting something I need in the relationship, even if its something with my husband or boyfriend. It also happens if I haven't had sex in...

Our relationship definitely developed out of a good friendship with our partners. My husband and I have been poly in some form every since we started dating. He had a serious girlfriend and he and I were casual. Obviously the situation changed radically and now four years later we are happily...

Hi, My husband and I got married in august and we have been in a closed quad with our boyfriend and girlfriend for a little over 7 months. There have been some bumps, but overall things have been wonderful. I look forward to being able to ask questions and have conversations here. This seems...