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  1. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Been losing track of time. Been so inspired to do my artwork...I go for hours at a time without noticing. I'm lucky I have my little munchkin to remind me to eat, get up and dance with her or rest with her. ^.^ Keeps me from getting upset about the boyfriend being so far away until the 23rd...
  2. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Started carving my new block...OMG I never thought about the kind of wood I was using before....LOVE this shina! Have been in happy artist la la land since i started this piece. Maybe I will post a pic when I'm done. :D Listened to some voice notes sent to me from my boyfriend just to keep me...
  3. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Yeah! heh heh. Thanks. I haven't been online at all really. My boyfriend's parents got in an accident and he's been in Sierra Leone since September. I hear from him about once a week. My husband started acting strangely not too long after. He's been really depressed and saying that he knows I'm...
  4. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Took my first hot shower in a looooooong time! Yay! I don't have to boil water for baths or dishes anymore! (Our water heater was broken and we were broke) Also, on Monday we had a blast! I love Halloween! I got dressed up too...as a pirate. When I saw this costume in the store and thought of...
  5. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    After a major breakdown last night, realized I should start following my own advice. Made a conscious decision to work on not being a doormat. Finally realized that I was making sacrifices that no one asked me to make and was making my family just as miserable as I was. Thank goodness for...
  6. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    My daughter came home for the weekend! ...and I had a my sister-in-law and her family for a birthday barbeque! Yay!
  7. Kealoha

    Poly my whole life ~ Now Struggling with fears & insecurities

    Wow, thank you so much for sharing with us! You shouldn't feel guilty about your feelings. You've never felt this way before. It's understanding to be overwhelmed. Mono or poly...just because you've been one, doesn't mean it's wrong to be the other. It sounds like Will loves you and is the...
  8. Kealoha

    10yrs Mono, newly poly - BF and GF within one week!

    *laughs* I'm already jealous! Most of our long-time friends can't even handle if they think one of us is looking at other people! We both get scolded...you are super lucky! I tip my virtual hat and congratulate you both. :D Have fun and good luck!
  9. Kealoha

    Would like advice from other married women

    There is so much great advice here, but let me add my own comment. Regardless of what is going on, as long as he wants you as his wife, as long as he still loves you, you ARE SPECIAL. No matter who is involved, you are still his wife. You have so many options, but I would advise, like...
  10. Kealoha

    going from a V to an N -- do I have to??

    Carma, I understand that you are trying to simplify things and save your marriage, but are you really going to be happy this way? Already you are saying you will forgive him if he cheats...assuming he will. Yet, you've sacrificed your other love, sacrificed your happiness. It's not like...
  11. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    It's a roller coaster today. The hubby is in a mood because of work, or lack thereof...and he is a total cynic on the dating front right now. I'm trying to be understanding and supportive, but it's difficult being around him when I don't know what's going to set him off. It's cloudy, which...
  12. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Made a little poster for my 10 yr old's "band". Haven't actually seen a single one pick up an instrument yet lol. My little girl is the lead singer. She asked me to make her artwork "cool and rockin'" and the letters drip blood. I spent waaaaaay too much time on it, but it was so much fun...
  13. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Incredibly happy after many hours of carving...finally finished my printblock last night. (posted pic links in the made you smile thread... I just love it when I finish a project! Doesn't matter how many people in my house are grumpy. hee hee *does happy dance*
  14. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Finally finished my woodblock for my friend's birthday! Just need to do clean-up on it and decide how to color. I worked it out on Photoshop and am ready to finish. Yay! *does happy dance*
  15. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    @ Ariakas: Awesome! I'm glad you're where you can be appreciated, and I know it's hard to be with people when you feel like crap, but sometimes it's the only way to crawl out of the hole. glad you're feeling better.^.^ Me? I'm ready to throw Facebook out the window. Found out some of my...
  16. Kealoha

    going from a V to an N -- do I have to??

    Carma, *hugs* I am glad if I can help in any way. (Sorry this will probably be long again) I know it was your plan to separate yourself from Sundance so you could sort things out in your head first, but I am actually happy that you were able to connect with him. Part of the problem between you...
  17. Kealoha

    going from a V to an N -- do I have to??

    *hugs* Oh dear...so much fear and pain and sorrow. I do know what it's like to live in fear of someone who is supposed to love you. I also have major issues with lies...most of my issues are leftover major childhood trauma that I'm dealing with. I think whatever happens, you should find a...
  18. Kealoha

    Am I overreacting?

    Lol thank you! Totally hadn't thought about that! For the record, I didn't yell last night, simply asked because I was curious...he had told me previously that he wasn't interested in looking anytime soon and he hadn't updated me. I still want him to tell me if he is going to date, so I don't...
  19. Kealoha

    Am I overreacting?

    Thank you for the advice SourGirl. The last thing I want is details, unless they will affect our family,but intention? Yes, I really do not want to be blind-sided. I was more angry that he lied when I asked. I really didn't think it was a big deal until then...and frankly, would have been almost...
  20. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Excuse me, but in my husband's words, "The only thing this says to me is that you have an awesome wife!" I haven't done the dating site thing, but I am on some epal n networking type sites n get a ton of messages from people that want only sex...same in a club...but it's not what I want, so...
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